What do men want.

Suzzy, as a Man I will tell you what most of us search in a girl: 1.- That she is pretty 2.- That she is a good friend 3.- That she can take care of us 4.- That she is with us in the bad and in the goods 5.- That she is smart That´s what most men want, and for me, as you said, there are a lot of things, that I can´t afford that she pays for her things, I like her to be with me almost all the time, That she do the same things that I do. That we like same music,games, and a lot of other things too. Hope this helps you. Just a question. You put this because you like someone and you don´t know how to attract him?

what men want?????????????? i dont know about that. cause men is so complecated. men is so wild. men is so misterious. men is so dangerous. we dont know about their feeling n what they think'

if i'm going to be myself i expect the same from a woman,why put on airs that will change if your not honest from the get go,it's a waste of time, her's and mine. a woman that makes more than me has a better job,period,so why let that make a difference? so you can argue about money for years? not me. i'm not making a move on any man's woman,married or not it's hard enough to find a compatable opposite,who needs all that drama.as for the young man on the island,he must have an arm the size vw ;)

A nice and interesting question...Real man only want one thing... Love! I just wrote an artcile regarding this question---you can read @ http://www.socyberty.com/Men/What-Men-Want.396173

My girl friend tells me I sound like a typical guy so I guess I'm a typical guy... With that, here are the things I want or how I would want things to be... First, I'd like things to be simple... Don't over complicate things when you don't need to... Second, when she asks me what's on my mind & I tell her nothing, then really, NOTHING's on my mind, or nothing is wrong... No need to ask me "what's wrong? you're too quiet!!!" This is almost a part of number 1 stated above... I don't have one designated area where I go... I can blank out just about anywhere... "My special alone place" is in my head... If I just wanted to be alone for few minutes, I'll just blank out... Doesn't everybody have few moments like that? Just would like to spend some time alone? I do that... I just stare into a space not thinking about much with blank expression on my face... Why must there be something wrong when I do that? I just wanted some quiet alone time... Granted I should tell her I just want to be left alone but if she asks me & I tell her, "oh, nothing... I'm just spacing out!" That means there's nothing wrong... I'm just spacing out... We don't need to talk at that exact moment... Third, if I can afford it, I'll pay for it... If I can't I'll ask you if you can... No big deal who pays for what... If we have secure enough relationship, that shouldn't really matter, who pays what... On our 2nd date, my current girl friend & I, she brought me a dozen roses & paid for the dinner... Ok, so what... That's that... 4th, "being fuzzed over" or "fuzzing over her" is over-rated... Showing each other how we much we care is one thing... Constantly fuzzing over the other person gets old quick & out right annoying after a while... My girl friend agrees with me on this one... 5th... She's a person with mind of her own as well as I'm a person with mind of my own... Treat each other as such... Why the labels of the roles... I would want a good mother for my daughter, which my girl friend meets & passes with flying colors as far as qulification goes... My daughter has known her to be the mother & my girl friend loves my daughter as her own... My daughter IS MY GIRL FRIENDS own as far as she's concerned... Good enough for me... I don't want a "yes girl", if I'm wrong, I expect her to correct me and vise versa... If she's wrong, I'll correct her... "How much do you think you have to spend before we come across."? What are we, negotiating a price per hour? When time & feelings are right, people should get together... Why the dollar sign on feelings?

a man always wishes that his wife always be loyal ,sincere n loving to him.she must be caring,understanding,trustworthy n moreover she must share evrything wid him.

You know I have always wondered what men really want, I have seen men being treated so badly by their wives and girlfriends and they are the ones that seem to sticj by their partners, and then i have seen the women who do everything for their men, are just wonderful people and they seem to be the ones that men seem to cheat on, I would like to understand what goes on in the male brain...

I am married and havebeen married for 28 years and still very much in love with my wife. She is a darling and and I adore her, bu that does not stop me from looking at other women. I love to flirt. Basically all men are flirts and love the attention of other women too. Men are by nature polygamous. My fantasy has been to have 1000 wives. ha ha ha. Yes 1000 wives. Each having a special quality of her own. I woudl give each one of them special attention and pamper them. I love to pamper my women and make them feel special. Women are made for loving and pampering and I love it. Anythinng to keep them happy.

I can only speak for myself. What I want in a woman is that she is her own person, willing to share her life with me as an equal. Intelligence is essential, as is humour. Outside of that, it's all just extra bonuses! Looking for an 'uncomplicated' relationship is a contradiction in terms: relationships are always complicated. :)

What kind of women do men like?? Every man has his own answer,which is often different.In China,women tender,virtuous,considerate and beautiful are popular in any place.

Hey Suzzy, I don't know what information to provide you as an answer to this question, because in my girlfriend I have not found any mistakes that will make me ask such questions, but let me tell you one think What a man from a girl is: 1. She must be pretty, but should not be too proud of it. 2. She can be complicated, but should be understandable. 3. She should be able to command you, but should not insult you. 4. She can be possessive, but not suspicious. and about paying the bills, just imagine you are in a Top class restaurant with you Boyfriend/husband, to whom will the bearer bring the bill. Here in my place obviously it will be to the Boyfriend/husband, i don't know about whats happening there. Now you tell me what you expect from a Man :-)

i man never like this type of girl who is alwas reddy for everthing there should some boundation especially nfor girl friend,man say they those type girls who are for everthing but it is only for some times

Hello, I myself believe that men should give women everything. Give them the world. I love to see my wife happy, if i think for a min. that she isn't happy I will change what I am doing. As for paying for a date when i was dating, i would never ask or want a women to pay for it ever. If they did I would take it that they weren't interested and probably not call them back. I believe that if you love somone you should put them as the highest priority in life. I also belive that everything should be 100% equal based on decissions. I myself don't even want my wife to work at all. I want to take care of her and give her all of her needs possible. I like to see her go out and spend my money on nails, hair, shop for new clothes and etc. It makes me happy in life knowing that shes happy. I hope this helps a little from my point of view. Have a great day. Matt

Men want a woman that can bring him a sense of security. In other words a woman who can comfort him when he's down, and help raise the family etc.

I do not want anything from anybody. I accept people as they are. If I expect anything, then it would be a horrible infringement upon their personal rights. But surprisingly, some people do not like this. They want others to expect something from them. But I feel tht most other men want to dominate the woman. After all, that is the essence of marriage. The desire to dominate is inbuilt unless a person comes out of that desire because of his wisdom.