should a person be virgin before his or her marriage???

its not common nowdays.many lose their virginity before they get married . that too in foreign countries they lose virginity at a very young age so its difficult to find a virgin partner for u........

granted, that there will be no virgin on this earth where we live..so you will no longer marry..you will be bachelor ever..you have to consider too the way you feel...it's not only because of virginity but you have to see her inner beauty..i believed that virginity is still the best..but i think nowadays..youth for today are so agressive..it's too rare to find out real virgin.

I am from the philippines and people there, especially the old ones, have that kind of idea on minds, that a girl should be untouch before marrying to someone. But I dont buy that idea. I am an open minded person, and im currently living in a western country where "S#X" is just a normal "kind" of thing. But im not saying that you should be engage into "S#X" with someone who wants to have "S#X" with you. Maybe, only to the guy you love. And of course, since you know your partner, (if you worry about those "disease"), then you dont need to worry that you will be infected by those.

Hey, Personally I don't think I will EVER marry someone who isn't a virgin when I get married. You may think to yourselves that I am crazy, lol, but I will explain in simple terms. Pretend that you are a male (if you aren't)do you know that if you have s#x before marriage with someone they actually lose 33% interest in the female? So lets just say that the guy was only interested in the girl about 70%, he then would only have about 37% interest left in the girl. So if somehow they break up, the girl will not be a virgin any more. And the chances of her having s#x after she has already has it once are very high. Then most males who have already had s#x before will also just do it, then leave her, and move on to the next one. I certainly don't want to marry a girl who has had s#x with 5 guys before! DISGUSTING!

well i go with you,i like my girl to be virgin before her the same goes for me too after all men and women are equal there are no seperate rules