Which one do you like to be your first baby boy or girl?
By ediyanto
@ediyanto (233)
United States
January 6, 2009 8:19pm CST
I want to now about your opinion about these that have become a married couple which one do you like to be your first baby?
5 responses
@ktosea (2026)
• China
7 Jan 09
I am not married but still I have my own opinion.I prefer boys firstly because it needn't too much care to bring him up.the world is safer for a little boy than girls.plus when they grow up, you have to worry about more things for girl than boys.
ok,this sounds a little selfish but it really make sense. of course a girl will be equally good.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Boys need just as much care and attention as a girl does it doesn't matter which you have as long as they are both healthy and happy... Boys need the same attention as girls meaning when they become teenagers same as girls they do get pressured into things like a girls do.. just my two cents..
@ktosea (2026)
• China
7 Jan 09
you had a point here,but I am not concern the careness about little boys or girls when they are at home.what I am thinking about is,boys will be more strong and he can handle almost all things when he grow up.even when he meet some dangers. boys could be more calm,but girls may cried about some unhappy things in your arms and you have to spend more time to care ant teach her how to reckon with.
@suiteheart (22)
• Australia
9 Jan 09
I am not married nor anywhere close but I would prefer to have a baby boy first as well I'm not really sure I just really want a baby boy first then two little baby girls.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Well being married and when I first started dating my husband and yes got pregnant honest I didn't care rather it was a boy or a girl I was just happy and lucky I was one of those people that were able to have children. I'm certainly not a picky person when it comes to that either.. I did have a little boy that is now 9 years old and is the joy of my life.. Would I go back to hope for a girl NEVER.. Boys are just as joyful as a girl in every single way!
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 09
I didn't mind if I had a boy or a girl in my first pregnancy and I had a son. I hoped to have a girl next time and in my second pregnancy hoped to have a girl. However at 16 weeks I found out I was having a boy and I got used to the idea. However at 36 weeks pregnancy I found out he has spina bifida. So I didn't know just how bad his disability would be. He was born at home and then went to the hospital into the special care baby unit for three weeks. I love both my boys and I would dearly love to have a girl one day.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Hello ediyanto! My husband and I have the same feeling about having a baby girl first. Based on my experience, girls are more mature than boys. Girls are more responsible that's why we want to have a first daughter.
