which will you choose a FAT or THIN bf/gf? then why....why...

My husband is thin and so am I ,mind you not as thin as we used to be,middleage spread creeping in ,but like I say more to cuddle.It would not matter to me really it was just pure luck we were almost the same size.I would worry if my partner was to weighty because of health ground but it would not put me off.As long as you get along with the person and they are kind to you and you get along it does not matter what size anybody else, fat ,thin tall.short ,all the same with the same feelings, all want to be loved and give love.

I don't think it really matters to some extent. you have to be attracted to them for sure, but not everything is in whether they are fat or thin. Some fat people have good personalities. The only thing that would really bug me is if the guy is skinner than me. It would make me feel really fat and have lower self-esteem in myself. Plus I think scrawny guys are ugly. But that still goes with me having to be attracted to them.

Who cares as long as they treat you good. I don't care much about looks personality comes first......It's just like saying What do you prefer BLACK or WHITE!

I do not look at someone weight in determining if I want to go out with them. I choose how the person treats me and how they are towards other people. I would mch rather date a date guy that is loving, sweet, can hold down a job and not cheat. Compared to to some cute skinney man who hates kids and cheats with anything he comes in contact with.

My husband is very skinny, but that doesn't really matter. That was not a factor in why I chose him at all. I chose him for his mind, not for his body weight. I'd love him just the same if he weight 300 pounds. Appearance does not matter to me when finding a mate.

No one will prefer fat bf/gf unless that person is fat himself/herself. Even though person is fat he/she dreams for slim and beautiful person. I choose for good body either slim or one with some pounds because he must be tall so accordingly I prefer maintained body but not at all fat because I am slim and beautiful with good height. :)

Chooses depend on age range or maturity of an individual I think, because if one is mature enough, physical appearance wouldn't count in choosing your mate, or would I say a wise choice would go for someone who be able and rounded in all aspects be it emotional, physical, economical etc. I would say that if I am a lady I wouldn't mind of a fat or thin boyfriend, it doesn't matter.

Hi becnh83, It won't matter to me fat or thin as long as they are have a good sense of humour and caring also kindness. Tamara

Ha!ha!ha! i remember when i was in college i want a tall, dark and handsome and thin. i am not attracted with a fat guy even the guy is cute.i like a thin boyfriend material!and now i am happily married with a chubby responsible man!

why.. why.. why.. does that still matter today? what i know is that love is blind. i am a she so he and his look doesn't matter. the important thin there is that they jive in all sorts of ways... like timon and pumba

Everybody like enthusiastic girls no matter fat or thin. But I will choose a capable girl as my girlfriend.