FALL IN LOVE with BEST FRIEND
@abhilashsoman (45)
India
January 7, 2009 5:30am CST
can anyoner fall in love with his/her best friend.is this really possible?//??
if it is ,and only one is interested and the other is not ,then what will be the situation.What should the person who loves do.shud he/she remain as his/her best friend, or shud they break?..what is ideal. or is it possible to make the other person also fall in love with him/her.?
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@mrbrownedeye (781)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
it is better as always to keep on the bond as being a best of friends because such kind of friendship can never be loss nor destruct if friendship are genuine.
@AngelaWang2008 (10)
• China
15 Jan 09
I ever fall in love with my best friend. His is my schoolmates. I was in bad health when i was in hight school. the doctor suggested i to exercise. The friend said to me that he would exercise with me. He did it. He ran with me every morning until we graduated. I fall in love with him at the last year. but I didn't know if he fall in love with me,too. Until recently,I have heared from him. Rumor has it that he is going to get married.
@FayeSLongo (306)
• United States
7 Jan 09
It is totally possible to fall in love with a best friend. My son's father was my best friend for over a year before we ever became involved and our relationship lasted over seven years! Now we are not romantically involved but we are still best friends; it has taken a lot on both of our parts to maintain our friendship but we've done it.
When Eric (my son's Dad) told me he was interested in me as "more than a friend" I really wasn't on the same page as him. But I cared for him very much and rather than loose him I told him I would date him, but I also told him that I really didn't want to be in a relationship and I was afraid doing so would ruin our friendship. I was honest with him about how I felt. But the bottom line was that I was MORE afraid of loosing him than anything else. I grew to love that man more than anyone EVER. I still haven't met anyone that I've loved more (well besides our child =))
@ntmingyu (65)
• China
15 Jan 09
love is the right for any person,so fall in love with his/her best friends is not wrong, we think it's acceptable, because as there are best friends, they should have so many same habits and know each other well, why they can not love? Some of the couple are friends even from kid, so much privity between them, it's preferred by family.
If one of the best friends find he loves her, he can speak to her directly and know what she thinks, if yes, it's really a good thing, if one is interested and the other is not, not to importune, can be still friends, otherwise, they will be break surely. Love is from both sides, one-sided love is no result and both of them will be not happy. As best friends, no matter who he or she choose as lover,bless them is the best way