will u marry a person who is not a virgin?
By TsubasaBazz
@TsubasaBazz (239)
India
January 7, 2009 7:39am CST
hi everyone.....if u come to know that he/she is not a virgin will u marry them??how will u react after knowing it?
5 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Hello TsubasaBazz! I don't really mind if a guy is virgin or not. My husband was divorced when I met him. What important for me is the present and we both love each other. Forgot the past and look for the future.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
8 Jan 09
this is highly horrible.......im 19...i luk forward for a pure virgin to be my life partner....watever may change, but this policy is mine that will never change
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@renee0909 (152)
• China
7 Jan 09
hi, there. In my country, China, we have a traditional value that one should be a virgin when get maried, esp. for girls. One of my college course is western culture. My teacher for this lesson was from the U.S.. From him, I know that America used to have double standard as well.
But I think this notions have changed a lot now. Personally, I don't think whether he is a virgin really matters. It is his personality and our love that really matters. Our future is more important.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
8 Jan 09
virginity matters........watevr may develop, my culture will never go down...virgin is my answer....
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@bantilesroger (341)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
Yes, of course, because I'm marrying her in the present for the future, and if her present includes lost virginity, so be it.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
8 Jan 09
i will never marry a non-virgin........i want a pure virgin certified girl to be my wife to share my bed...not the one who was in bed already with another person...if i found like that , i wont agree for marriage....i will look for another pure virgin...this is my policy.....
@stardustcdsd (1856)
• India
9 Jan 09
and if u continue at this rate,the admin is going to ban this discussion.u sound like an indian guy.oh well..virginity ,as for me,is a curse placed on girls.i dont want to continue with this discussion any longer so i finish this with this one point.DONT WORRY IF YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE HAD SHARED BED WITH ANOTHER PERSON BUT MAKE SURE SHE DOESNT END UP WITH ANOTHER GUY AFTER YOU MARRY HER.happy lotting
@arijit2 (79)
• India
7 Jan 09
Maybe when a person comes to know that his/her partner is not a virgin, he will react very badly and get angry. Now here there are 2 paths:- 1) You leave your partner 2)You don't leave your partner and you love him/her as much as before,
According to me the people who choose the second option are really good people and are true lovers because I believe that however bad a person's past may be but his/her present behaviour and attitude determines his/her characteristics.
