are you a people-pleaser?
By oyenkai
@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
January 7, 2009 7:27pm CST
Embarrassing but I have to admit that I am, most of the time. I think too much of what others people think of me that I try my best to please them. I'm getting rid of this 'a_s_s-kissery' though and so far it's working great for me! I think I have to attribute it to my boyfriend - he makes me feel like I'm doing my best so I just keep on striving for more:) Then he assures me when I'm right and reprimands me when he thinks I'm wrong. He encourages me to be who I am - no matter what other people think, because he doesn't care about them:)
2 responses
@jimssaftytips (507)
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8 Jan 09
thats the kind of person ive always wanted to find but its so hard to find someone who thinks u do ur best and excepts the things i do right instead of what i do wrong which is the time. My problem is i have the same problem u had and i have a hard time letting it go. I know she the tries to help me but she just doesnt know how much i care about her and maybe i do butt kiss way too much to try to change her mind about me, but it just seems to backfire. But i hope things change soon for me she thinks shes got it hard she has no clue on how i feel my life is she still has time work with her life. You seem to have ur life back keep ur man and be happy thats all that counts.
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@jimssaftytips (507)
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8 Jan 09
I hope so too soon cuz its really getting to me and thanks for the response back
