Question for us Ladies....

I was very lucky; my first time didn't hurt at all, nor did I bleed. My boyfriend (who is now my husband), was fairly gentle - both of us were virgins. But in my case, it didn't hurt because I'd broken my hymen when I was ten by falling down on the bar on my bike. It hurt like no tomorrow, and I bled a little. But as a result, I had a fairly enjoyable (or at least painless) first time, so I suppose it was worth it!

It hurt a little, but I was ready and I was older (whichis probably why I way more ready). Neither of us finished the first time. He stopped when I asked him. I bled for 2 days, and then I bled the second time too. But he was sweet and gentle and very good to me. I don't remember an exorbanent amount of pain.

Yes it did hurt a lot because I was scared. It hurts because some of us is very nervous when it is the first time. But, after my 1st time everything is fine. Good luck :D

It wasn't my first time that hurt the most, it was when I didn't have it for several weeks. I don't know what or why it happened, but even though I have had four children at the time, afterwards, I bled and it hurt for several days later. Actually, that was fun for me. Now, it's been nearly a year since I've last had it so come the next time, who knows what it would be like. *Pleiades

My first time didn't hurt and I didn't bleed at all, it wasn't a fun experience, cause I didn't really like the guy that much. I don't get the women who say it hurts, but that's just me. In my opinion, if it hurts, you must be doing something wrong. All the times after that, the experience has been good.

lol i dont know why its always a BAD experience for people...but for me it was REALLY good...idk...maybe i have a good partner..lol he just knew how to make it feel good and make me feel good...and it was an all around good thing.