LOVE==FRIENDSHIP????
@vinumdas (261)
India
August 25, 2006 6:44am CST
Can you love someone without being his/her friend? This is not as simple as it seems to be......
32 responses
@jep_toyo (1606)
• Philippines
9 Jan 07
for me, i guess you can love someone without being his or her friend. for love is not only based on friendship but to many factors as well. one may love someone simply because of her/his looks or because of her/his character. But a good relationship (they say) starts with good friendships...
@pankajdande (14)
• India
24 Sep 06
its impossible to love sum one without knowing him/her
if u dont knw that person u cant believe him/her
if u cant believe ,how can u love..?
@rogingilbert (65)
• India
24 Sep 06
u cannot love any one without being his /her friend...friendship is the first step towards love
@saibal06 (2575)
• India
19 Nov 06
I believe that but it should be first friendship maturing into love.Love is friendship and friendship means sharing. It is all about this sharing which define how strong is the tie of love between two couple or lovers.
@19670104 (84)
• South Africa
5 Sep 06
anyone can come first!!!!! either friendship and then love a lot later.. But if love comes first then it normally either ends up as a fast affair or it can happen that its love at first sight and then it develops into the best love relationship and friendship that is everlasting it depends on what you want from life and if you are ready for a longterm love-frienship..
@Daniela272086 (145)
• Italy
4 Sep 06
I think you can't love someone without being his/her friend. Friendship is love, complicity, mutual trust, intimacy. How can we think to love anyone if we don't feel a feeling of frieds for him/her?
Besides, friendship MUST be mutual: it takes AT LEAST two persons to be friends. Unrequited friendship can't exist, it would be truly senseless. Love, instead, can be unrequited: it's directed towards a particolar person, and to love someone we don't need he/she loves us back.
@johnvj (20)
• India
6 Sep 06
yes.we should love other without expecting anything from them. it doesnt mean u should take lot of risk.jesus tought us love ur anemy.
@Webbie (30)
• Mexico
30 Aug 06
This is truly a Topic that is not answered easily. True love is selfless and requires nothing in return. I can only speak of my personal experience. I never believed in love at first sight, till it happened to me. I saw this person as they were going by in front of my home. (in the back of a large dump truck and only saw from the shoulders up) But we made eye contact and for me it was love. I later (2 days) found it was the same for the other person. I did not know the other person and was not friends but did love them deeply. This person came to my home a couple of Days later in search of the love we both felt. At the time we did not even speak the same language. But we worked on our friendship that grew into a romantic relationship in time that lasted for several years. We did grow in different directions in our life and ended the romantic portion. But the love has not diminished at all for either of us. Our friendship has grown thin over the years, but the love is still there for us both. In my opinion love is of itself. So I do believe you can love with out being friends.
@mongameenu (22)
• India
31 Aug 06
yes we love someone without being his/her friend .Lova at first site is an example of this when we see someone and we find hom/her beautiful, charming attractive we will fall in love .
@dieter (2)
• Belgium
31 Aug 06
I think its a diffical discution, i think not.
For me is personal a friend more important than love...