How would you describe yourself briefly.

Hello Dpk........Well if I have to describe myself ,all I can say is that I am a no nonsense person,and is straight forward and honest too.....I enjoy the company of my friends ,and when tney start discussions like this,I end up having the ggggitters.....Well the fact is Dpk,I am scared to reveal all my positive and negative traits to you...I am scared that you will find some of them not to your liking and may act as a disqualification,and I will end up being removed from your friends list...Much as you have assured me that this will not happen,I still need more of them at this juncture.....Also you have failed to project your positive and negative traits and this is a most ungentlemanly thing to do,Dpk.....

About me?? well I eat when I am bored I am vulnerable to believing in lies I am hoping one day, I wont need a fake smile I live by quotes that explain exactly what I am going through I have drama and memories Support me or not, I ‘ll be someone, someday Make me laugh and i will love you forever and eternally The beach at night – my fave Bring me flowers, I will be ever yours I love greens, I love chips but no popcorns for me Love to lie under the stars I love kids, cuddling them such an amazing thing Buy me honesty and i will be your best friend I do not eat the ends of breads and french fries Call me odd You can call me spontaneous and random I am not sick, reason with me, do not help me Have faith in me I hate when relationships suck. I miss my sisters and family I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY WE ALL JUST CANT GET ALONG. LETS DANCE THE DARK AWAY……

i am what i am.i think i donot judge(rather easily)we have only one life here,why should i spent that in criticising others???i am little emotional and sensitive.i needs loads of attention.i am stubborn and wouldnt want my man or kids to be hurt by anyone.i am caring and very faith ful.i also believe in the saying A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED.and i dont believe in changing myself for some other person.he/she should like me as i am.

Nice discussion Deepak, but you have not described yourself, so you better do it. About me I think I am a very confused person, who really does not know what she wants from her life. I have lot of inferiority complex and always underestimate myself....I am honest and cannot live with guilty conscious...., I can never hurt people as I know what is the pain when one is hurt....I am not happy with my looks...., and I think I was not matured at the right time and so now since time has gone, I have buried my desires and now my family is my greatest concern and I think I kill myself worrying about them....now my only wish is that my children settle down happily in life and that me and my hubby die healthy and not become burden on our children. so this is me.....now you know....

Hello deepak! Another good post. To be honest with you, I have a hard time describing myself. I don't know what to say either. I can't say I am a real good person because I committed mistakes sometimes but I am not also that real bad. I tried to be good but maybe I hurt somebody unintentionally. Well, I mean, I don't kill, I don't steal and I don't backstab somebody. To make it short, "I'm only human"

Hello my friend dpk262006 Ji, Well, what we expect from others, we should be able to do ourselves. Now we are married 39 + yrs, before my marriage I was a teacher and after, I became purely house wife, my hubby is a retired service personal and we both are living together after our marriage barring his duty time. We are pur vegetarian/tea-totallar/non smoker and above all God fearing persons. We believe in giving more that taking . My pass time is knitting and recently started this, here I enjoy global company. I have roamed our country from head to foot and including got chance to visit US once in 2003. After I get something about you , I promise to continue.may god bless You and have a great time.

Awww Deepak, there you go again with another of your off-beat topics. How can I describe myself…mmmmmm here goes in alphabetical order Childish Crabby Contradictory Easy Gullible Greedy Honest Immature Idiot Introvert Irritable Impatient Kind Lazy Liberal Moody Modest Non-religious Peaceful Predictable Polite Simple Spiritual Tolerant Uncertain Weak …. …and I am a mother, a wife, a daughter and a daughter-in-law too while being an office-colleague to some wonderful people. (I’m sure you did not ask for physical description…)

I am quiet, self-contained and very independent. I am a very hard worker and very loyal.

OOh you're looking for a lot more honesty here than some might be prepared to give pal! As for me, let's see: I'm a caring person, I can't bear to hurt someone's feelings so will be very diplomatic even if it means having to tell small lies or avoiding the truth, e.g. a friend has a very dramatic change of hairstyle which I think looks awful - whilst some might exclaim in dismay "oh gosh, what have you done to your hair" whereas I would just keep quiet and if they asked me what I thought I would say with a smile "As long as you're happy with it, that's what matters. It's very different to what I'm used to seeing you as but I'm sure I'll get used to it"! Some might think it's better to be honest but I know from years of experience that people sometimes might make a very dramatic change to their look to make a point to others, maybe they've just split up with a long term partner or spouse or maybe they're having a mid life crisis... But I feel it's not my place to make someone feel down and I would be mortified if I hurt a friend's feelings and/or knocked their confidence. I'm generally quite a chilled out person and don't believe in judging people for their lifestyle choices or career paths - be they gay or straight or celibate or a lawyer or a toilet cleaner or bailiff. The only time I judge people is when they break the law or do dishonest things, then - I don't have time for them. I can be quite bad tempered - to my husband's dismay! This is something that has got worse with age - but funnily enough my friends don't see me as bad tempered at all. I only show my temper to my immediate family members, I guess I get that from my dad! It's not nice to have a bad temper and I make a concerted effort to count to ten and not lose it! I know that I have an addictive personality. I started smoking when I was 16 and have smoked ever since although in the last year I've cut down to just 2 or 3 cigs a day and hope to cut that down even more till I can give them up completely. I'm addicted to the internet. I don't buy things like playstation or xboxes because I know I'll get addicted to them. I used to be addicted to online pc games but when I started dreaming of playing cards stacked up in front of me like Solitaire, I knew I had to quit LOL! I know I have this personality trait so I have to keep a check on it! I don't like conflict - I really hate confrontations. I don't argue with people at all - if I feel someone is trying to force their opinion on me, I will back off and leave them talking to themselves. In the workplace I am known to be very accommodating but I can make my point without getting worked up about it. I think this is a good aspect of my personality... I also have a very optimistic view of life. I am easily pleased and am not always wishing I had this that or the other item or wishing that I looked like a model or had millions of £s to live on. I am happy with my job, my family life and my social life generally and I don't crave to own a big mansion or expensive car or flashy possessions. I do not believe the grass is greener on the other side :) Ok I think I've gone on for long enough now :)

Whoa..an interesting invitation to an open book of oneself. I wouldn't know where to start but honestly I am too shy to divulge to the world about myself as I do not have an interesting account of myself to shout about. Maybe you can read through the lines of my writings and conclude yourself what kind of lady you are interacting with. The virtual world has made it such that the unknown meet the unknown so to 'undress' here defeats the whole purpose of being private yet friendly. If you know me well then the thrill is gone and what is left is the monotonous of a daily conversation like in the real world. So in the meantime let me keep you in the guessing game!

Hi dpk262006! Oh this is difficult! haha..I have a different opinion of myself than what other people perceive me to be especially those who have not really know me at all or have just known me for a brief moment. In reality, i am a very quiet and reserved person although there are those rare times that I loosen up. I smile a lot even when my heart is broken. I am friendly yet over the years I became distant and not very trusting on people anymore. I guess, this is because I got hurt and betrayed so many times and used by people who are very close to me. It is hard for me to open up my heart to people and if I do it is because I feel that you are sincere and trustworthy. I am not a judgmental person, I respect people's individuality. I am a very simple person who loves my husband, my family and my friends. My heart breaks when I can't help people who are in need, whether financially or not. I want to get rich not for self gain but in order for me to uplift my family's lives. I am a dreamer and a workaholic. And I never stopped looking for opportunities and praying that one will come and work out just fine for me finally. I am a prayerful person but I lack faith sometimes. haha..I guess, this will somehow give you an idea about me dear friend! Take care always and have a nice day! lovelots..faith210

It is easy to tell about others but self assessment is little difficult. People are happy to judge others but seldom interested to judge themselves. I think your discussion will give an opportunity to all (think about themselves). About me, I will tell my negative points first, I get angry/irritated very easily, am very sentimental, am very lazy (but it depends, sometimes I am lazy to do some kind of jobs and some days in general, even do mylotting too) but it happens occasionally. In the positive side, I am happy to help others, try my best not to hurt others, always try to find out the positive side of others. Deepak, you may add more, but only the negative points so that I can think about it and improve myself.

I am finding it difficult to describe myself. I think I can say that I do not make friends very easily. I am a person who does not show or share my feelings with others. If I am hurt by someone I would rather ignore that person instead of fighting back. I find it better communicating with friends online rather than face to face. I try to help people whenever I can. And now cannot think of what more to add here!

I think it is much easier to describe someone else, rather than yourself. You really don't see how you are. plus, how you see yourself, others may see you much different. I would describe myself as a very helpful person. When it comes to doing my own things I can be very lazy. I am part German so I can be very stubborn at times and like to have last word. I also can get a temper if you really make me mad. I use to be able to say it would take a lot to make me angry, but anymore I would say it don't take much. I am very caring. And would never intentionally hurt someones feelings. I hate fights and hate to see people in a fight. I like things to be clean, very much hate clutter!! Lots of things annoy me, such as, people that chew with their mouth open, constant loudness,sound effects, people that can't drive, but are on the road anyways. That is just to name a few. I like pretty things, such as flowers, and colorful things. I like to read books every now and then. I am easy to get a long with, but I can also be extremely shy when I don't know someone and some people have taken that the wrong way thinking I don't like them, but it's just that I am shy and don't know what to say. But if I know you, you can expect me to talk a lot and sometimes joke around and act like a dork. I like to have fun and am willing to try all sorts of new things as long as they don't have the chance to kill me. I am scared of dying. Ok maybe when I start to think about it, it isn't so hard to think of things that would describe what I am like.

How i describe myself would depend on to whom and under what circumstances am i describing myself. If it was to friends the to pur it simply this is how it goes. Someone who has learnt things the hard way and values positive qualities in people. I try to give things that i am doing the best. Dedicated, loyal to friends, do not speak much initally, can get angered on certain things especially when it comes to treatment of people and protective of my loved ones. I could say more DPK but then it would seem that i am bragging.

Hear are a few things about me. They can be described as good or bad, depending on the person. 1. I am very outgoing. I love meeting new people and having a good time. 2. I am independent. I have found that it is better to depend on myself rather than others. 3. I am stubborn. Once I set my mind to something, it is very difficult for me to change it. 4. I am family oriented. My life revolves around my kids and their happiness. 5. I tend to adapt to every situation. However there are some that take longer to adapt to than others. I guess that is about the jest of it. It is hard to describe yourself.

I am brave yet vulnerable. I have a strong determination and a will to succeed in every undertakings but honestly sometimes easily get discouraged. I am a GOd fearing person yet a sinner...

Hi dpk! Wow! It isn't easy to describe oneself, but I will try! I am a very caring person. I love animals more than people sometimes because they give love unconditionally! I am a loyal and faithful friend, but I don't like to be crossed! I like to laugh and have a good time, but I tend to keep to myself alot too. I am an intelligent woman who definitely doesn't like to be told what to do! I have worked hard my whole life and now I am disabled and hate having to depend on anyone because I have always been strong and independent! I can still get around and do what I need to do and I don't take sh!t from anyone! I can be the nicest person in the world, but sometimes I let my sensitivity get in my way and then my angry side takes over! I can be very complex too! All in all I try to be the best person I can!

This ought to keep me busy for awhile, or not depending on how disgusted I get with my perception of myself. You didn't say if you wanted a physical description or a description of our character. I guess it's obvious already that I am a procrastinator. This is a trait that I am trying to overcome. Okay, here goes. I am a wordsmith. I have loved to read ever since I found out that there were words on the pages. I will read almost anything in print. Because of this I have developed a fairly large vocabulary. My husband used to always get on to me for using what he said were sixty four dollar words. He always said I talked over my kids heads but they too, as a result, have developed a good sized vocabulary. I'm also something of a perfectionist. This has caused me quite a bit of trouble in the past. Although I can usually do a great job at anything I try it will take me longer to finish because I am nit picking the details. I am a quick study. I can grasp the lesson being taught in the first few minutes of a lecture and then will be bored for the rest of the time while the points are expounded upon at length for everyone else's benefit. I had one teacher that recognized this ability in me and would always allow me to read library books during his classes because he knew that I would listen as long as I needed to and would then go on to other things. I have traveled to many different places in my country and I am the happiest when I am on the road. Since I have gotten older though the kinds of jobs that would let me indulge myself this way are no longer available to me and since I am not independently wealthy, or even solvent, I will have to content myself with my memories. So, what else would you like to know?

Heyya dpk! Nice topic! Ok..let's see..I am very spirited and outgoing when I'm comfortable. I love to oil paint and write. I also like reading and love learning about people,customs,religions.I think my trip of a lifetime was to Japan where I visited temples in Kyoto. I love hiking and nature. I have two teacup chihuahuas that have stolen my heart. Two daughters that are as spirited as me which keeps me on my toes. I believe in honesty and respect for all as no one is better than another. I love with everything I am and there's nothing I wouldn't do for my loved ones or friends. I am unfortunately not close to my family(mom,dad,etc)I haven't seen them in years but for the most part I think it's for the best. I am optimistic and try to always look on the bright side. I have had some very tough times and glad their over. That pretty much sums it up. That's me.