Life is Unfair!
By xtian04
@xtian04 (282)
Philippines
6 responses
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Life is maybe fair but only people and circumstances made it unfair. For racial discremination, who made it unfair? Isn't it the people? For failures and disappointments most of the time it's the circumstances to be blamed. So it's just either the people or the circumstances made life unfair...
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
yes, bing, it is true that life is fair because that's how it's meant to be in the first place. what makes life unfair is the attitude that people have.
discrimination, lawlessness, negativism, rebellion, discontentment, these are all negative attitudes which are prevalent among men of today.
so the problem with life being fair is the fact that we can only have this kind of thinking if we are on the positive side. be optimistic first and you will perceive life to be fair to everyone on earth.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
hello xtian. when they say that life is fair, this simply means that you have your fair in life so that you can work on it in order to be successful per the efforts that you have put in.
like if you are a farmer, your harvest will be yours depending on how much you have planted, what are the plants that you have planted, how well did you take care of your plants...all these will determine the bulk of your upcoming harvest and the quality of the harvest, too.
so, when we were born, we were all provided with a body and life's breath at that. how we will be growing up, what we do with our life in order that it will be a fruitful one, will be for us to decide.
remember that we are gifted with our own free will so that we can pursue the kind of life that we will be leading, that we will be having.
now, if you want to think of life being unfair because, others were born in rich countries and to rich parents whereas, others are less fortunate to be born in a third world country and to miserable parents, my, you have to wake up!
remember that you have sufficient power in your hands to make a difference. carve that future to make it right. use that free will of yours to choose the right path. so many born from indigent parents rose up to be pillars of society. it is just a matter of resolve to become successful. many have worked their way through n life by starting as working students. now, they have become stalwarts, they have become tycoons. make your move then, xtian. your future is in your hands.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
8 Jan 09
Life does throw some curve balls at us sometimes even knocking us down, we just have to get back up and keep going.
@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
8 Jan 09
Yes, life is fair. We all are given equal chances. It depends on how you see and look at life. I think that it is us who is making life unfair. The decisions we give and the opportunities we let pass are sometimes making things worst. Life will never be unfair for people who are willing to take risks.
For some, who are experiencing bad situations or bad things with their lives, they end up telling that life is unfair, they are poor while others are rich. Let's take that as an example, being poor is nobody's fault... but dying in poverty is your fault, that just means that in your life, you did not take a new thing, you were not able to do enough to make things change in your life.
Life is FAIR... we drive the roads to life... we just have to trust on the way that is being shown to us.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
11 Jan 09
Hey,
I might have to agree with you that sometimes life truly is unfair. Some people may be born already with a dissability or some disorder. In my opinion that is unfair. Hope this helps! Thanks and happy MyLotting!
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
8 Jan 09
Life is never said to be fair. We are taught to be prepared for unfairness in society. What we can do is to build up ourselves to be tough enough to stand it, with physical and mental competence. Keep positive minded to keep going. Be aware of the responsibility as a son/daughter, a husband/wife, or a father/mother, and offer your shoulder to those you care about.