You found out that your partner is involved with someone else, what will u do?

I would be devastated if my boyfriend cheated on me with someone else, especially if it is more than just physical. I wouldn't want to end the relationship, but that would be the best thing. If he cheated, then he obviously doesn't love me and he might do it again.

i would be completely calm about the situation and ask your partner about it in a calm, relaxed, but serious conversation. make sure you are prepared to hear something that you dont want to hear because many times thats what happens, but just try to accept what your partner is or isnt doing and try to fix the problem, but if you cant fix the problem, dont get hyped up over it. if your partner isnt faithful to you, apparently it wasn't meant to be

One of the things would be how long I had been with the partner. If I had been with him/her for a piece of time I would not want to just end the relationship. I would discuss with him after I got over being angry of course and than discuss why he did this. Was I not spending enough time with him or what. Discuss what the problem was. Most times it is a two way street. If a partner is looking else where there is something going on in the relationship that is having him/her look else where. Now this is not in all situations.

LOL I just went through this. I was looking for a way out and I found 7 ways. We were together for only 6 months but he was cheating with 7 different women the whole time. I let it go. I didn't feel bad for him or his son. I just let it go--som argument about what a loser he was to let this good girl go, but then again, I needed to clean house and you are very welcome!

I'm a confrontational person, so probably I will confront him right away but surely I won't be violent. I won't end the relationship right away, I will try to talk to him, like what had gone wrong to the relationship, what are our misgiving towards each other that leads to such situation. Been there done that and I'm married now to the person and we're trying to nurture the relationship each day.