In a room full of people, i feel lonely. Is something wrong with me?
By cambiste
@cambiste (1244)
India
January 9, 2009 12:47am CST
Whether its in class, or outside the college, or even in my house, i dont like talking to people unless they are a certain kind. Our tastes differ, and nothing matches, and everything seems so boring when im with ordinary people.
I dont like talks about movies, or actors, or people or their situations, and i often find myself getting bored when i listen to gossip about other people.
For me, there's nothing more boring than looking at a photo album full of people i dont know or dont wish to know.
I keep trying to pick up conversations, but since i dont watch movies, i cant fit in. And i dont like watching TV.
My friends often approach me, and they're always around me, especially if they're talking about collage stuff or exams. But if not for that topic, i would almost never communicate with others.
I just cant get along with people around me in ordinary situations. The place i like the most is my home, and not my college or anywhere else. And at home, i like it best when people leave me alone.
What should i do to improve myself?
3 responses
@har360 (95)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 09
I have this experience also. Feel like a stranger. I think we should always thinking about positive thought, also open your mind with creativity. Everyone need friend. Family or friend, can help us, when we are in not good mood. We can rely by ourself. Can you imagine living alone in this planet ? we will get boring all the time.
You can have a friend in myLot ! express your thought free without boundaries. So you not alone. Wish you always have a good time.
@shav9292 (928)
• India
9 Jan 09
AKELA...hahaha...just kidding.
if that's who your are then there is no point in changing but if you really wanna change..if you really think it is necessary to change then the first thing to do is ask yourself where you have to start.
but i still think..that you have to be yourself,if not much you are different than others like everyone else you have some special qualities.
@cambiste (1244)
• India
10 Jan 09
Thanks. lol.
I know its really weird. lol. I can be classified as different. Its kind of impossible for me to watch local movies or even hindi or english movies, or listen to silly things that doesnt concern me at all in any way.
I dont think anyone in my class is a mylotter, nor do they take interest in anime or mangas. On the otherhand, when everyone goes mad over cricket, or India winning, im totally lost.
If i be this way, i feel so fake in college.
@JummyTao (265)
• China
9 Jan 09
I aslo find myself getting bored when i listen to gossip about other people.But,i have lots of friends during the college life.I think you should improve yourself to try to make friends with others.If you treat sb as friends they too.
And try to let yourself play some games you like with your classmates.It's a good way to makes friends.
Best wishes to your college life,and happy mylotting!
@cambiste (1244)
• India
9 Jan 09
Thanks for your response.
I have many friends, but i just cant enjoy myself when im talking to them. They help me out when i need them, and many times, i too help them out. I know they think of me because every year they never forget to call me at midnight on my birthday,even though its just after christmas vacation, and we always celebrate my friends birthdays together in class. They also keep reminding me about assignments and record work submission dates, and fill me up whenever im on absent.
Even students i dont know ask me why i was absent, and the boys of my class also greet me whenever they pass by me, or sometimes even from across the class room.
I'm not unpopular, but i like to be alone because i dont enjoy company. ANd i cant shake that off.
