Life
By vidhyagowri
@vidhyagowri (1973)
United States
6 responses
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
9 Jan 09
That is the best policy, taking life as it comes. We usually do not have control over our lives though we feel that we have.Of course we may have control of certain things but we cannot say that in the future we will be so and so or doing so and so.Things can change unexpectedly and we can be taken unawares.We usually end up worrying about what will happen if we do or don`t do something, so the best thing is to live every day like a new day and face it.Of course that does not mean that we should not plan for the future. We must do it and set a goal for ourselves but at the same time we must see that we do what is required to the best of our ability and if things do not work out to plan we must have some other alternative which will take us forward.
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@ganga472007 (624)
• India
9 Jan 09
we have to plan and work hard to achieve a goal. But succeess is not in our hands. If we do not succeed than we have to take life as it comes and there is nothing wrong in it. however planning and working are part of our life.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
9 Jan 09
Hi Vidhya,
I appreciate your thinking. Actually it is a positive attitude towards life. I don't think you ever face any failure because you can take the failures also in a positive manner. If we plan something and it won't happened like we planned or some hindrance comes out then we will get upset. It is better to live the life as it comes. We can't predict the future of our life. We always expect good things only. But life is mixed with both good and bad. We should ready to accept the realities in life. So it is good to prepare for the worst and expect the best. All the very best.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
9 Jan 09
You are right. This is an imperfect world and we are imperfect people. If we think we can plan everything, we will be sorely disappointed! Life happens and we have to make the best of what comes our way. People who try to control everything end up frustrated or angry.
@sweetbabyjane (1929)
• United States
9 Jan 09
That is a very good policy. I am in agreement with you. There are some things that happen that you just cannot do anything about it no matter how hard you try or want to.