have you been used?

yes I have been used, and if I found out it had to do with my boyfriend using me I dumped him because obviously he was not interested in me, only what he could get out of me, the same with different friends in my life who have used me.

i am the one who used my partner when the time he courted me. I use him because i want to retaliate to my ex boyfriend for his wrong doings to me, thinking that he will realize that he take his move in wrong way for having such a so many girls in his life. But i am wrong for that thoughts for i am in the situation that i never know how much i hurt the person because of my revenge to my ex boy friend. And i realize that i was fall in love to the person i used.

Llonorra, kick him where it hurts the most and move on.

hi! Llonorra22...this is the things i hate that somebody would gonna try to used me..I'm good person..and has a good personality..they will not be successful if someone is planning about this to me..i will gonna investigate first his background..there are lot of factors to consider before saying yes to the person..

I had experience this. I had this elementary classmate whom I really liked but sad to say he doesn't like me but we used to be good friends when we were kids. we haven't see each other after graduating from elementary. Then after almost 10 years we've met, by that time he is looking for job here in manila (he stayed in the province for 10 years). Then we became close again then he courted then we became steady. After being together for almost a month I guess, he tried to borrow money from so since he's my boyfriend I lend him the money on that very day that he got the money from me he never texted me and trying to avoid my calls. Even our common friends, whom were close to him, are not answering my text and call. To cut it short he disappeared. Then I realized that he just used me to have communication with our classmates and worst is he used me to stay longer in manila. I hate him!

If a man used me or woman come to that I would avoid them like the plague,how dare they hurt me like that,there is nothing worse than being used,it would make me very cross indeed,he does not deserve someone nice like you and don't worry we have all been caught at sometime or another, the art is to see them coming and avoid them.Send them away.

Yeah, I have been used by people many a times for getting their work done. Actually the problem is, I am too bad at saying NO. But slowly, I am learning to do so. Actually this is all about the world. You either learn to be tough (even rude at times)or you end up being used!

Yes i think that i have been used by many people because of my innocence and i try to avoid these people and have successfully done with except for one guy who is my present class mate and he's always the guy whose near me since we have only three guys in our class and i'm not able to avoid him but he knows that i'm avoiding him but comes and speaks with me always..kinda of torcher he is and i hope this year i have to get rid of him.. Happy Mylotting

You mean wrong doing from his past affairs? I think this kind of guy is not sincere in his friendship with you and you must not entertain such kind of person as he is courting you to spite someone else. You become his scapegoat to run away from reality. Just forget about him.