Cute Vs. Sexy - What is a real man looking for?

I think men would look for their idea of cute for a long term relationship. If the guy is only looking for hot and sexy, he's probably nothing but trouble.

Typically a man who is looking for a long term relationship would pick a girl he thinks is cute and who is someone he is compatible with. A man who just wants a hookup, or another notch on his list, will go for a "sexy" girl...who usually is just easy.

Well, from what my husband told me and tells me to this day is that when he met me I had that innocent, yet seductive look about me. Whatever that means. LOL! He said what really got him was that I was so cutely shy and innocent looking, yet I had that mysteriousness about me that told him there was more to me than just innocence. LOL! We laugh about it all the time now, but we are still going strong after almost five years of marriage. God bless

I suppose that it depends on each individual man. I am a woman so my opinion would be that the looks always jump out first. I think a guy likes a sexy woman most of the time. Of course the most important thing in my thinking is the personality of the person. Looks are fleeting but the heart will be the same for years to come if they are truly a good person.

Based on what I have learned I think that men like casual relationships with sexy more outgoing women and I think when they are ready to settle down they are lookiing for someone who is more reserved and less likely to be disruptive with other family members and someone who has a more maternal and nurturing nature.