What do you think of breaking up is?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
January 9, 2009 8:07pm CST
For me breaking up is hard to do, especially when you love her so much. It's not quite easy to do with the right reasons. Breaking up is saying goodbye, and it's forever! How about you guys? Have a nice day to all of you!
7 responses
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
As for me breaking up is also showing how you really love a person. Sometimes your partner breaks up with you because he/she has fallen in love with somebody else. I know it's really painful but sometimes that's how love goes. We say goodbye to a person that we love because we know that he/she could be happier in the arms of someone else. I think that's the true meaning of loving... Letting go...
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
As for me breaking up is the end of the relationship. Letting go is not easy especially when you love that person very much. When you think that it will be a lifetime relationship that hurts and I can't understand the pain, and sometimes you can't easily forget. Have a nice day to you! You take care my friend!
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Yes it's really very hard. My first relationship lasted for two years. I thought it would last a lifetime but it never did... It took me years to forget accept that is was over..
@CherishC (249)
• United States
10 Jan 09
I sadly brake peoples hearts before I can give them a change to brake mine. I don't stay in relationships for long. Because I'm afraid of the pain it will put me though. Ive been through a lot of issues in my life, and taking on a relationship and having my heart broken, again and again isn't for me. I brake hearts before they brake mine. :-/
@LuckyLadyD (359)
• United States
10 Jan 09
You sound very much like me. I had a very hard upbringing. It was very abusive, and I learned at a very young age that I was going to be hard pressed to find someone who would love me.
I may have been a kid, but I was smart enough to realize that my family didn't love me, and if they didn't, then no one would.
So, I spend my entire life pushing people away. I didn't trust anyone, and the instant I let my guard down, opened the door, and let them in, they would take my heart in their hands, and squeeze it as hard as they could.
So, when I say that I understand where you are coming from, you can believe it.
After a lifetime of being very lonely, I read a book that changed my life. Not too long after that, I met and married my soul mate.
Everyone has a soul mate. And guess what, you will find him. You just have to believe in yourself. Have enough respect for yourself to not accept anything but the best.
You are a queen. You are royalty. You deserve to be treated as such. You treat yourself like a queen, and don't let anyone mistreat you.
Understand that if someone really loves you, they won't hurt you because that's not what love is. Mind you, even after meeting your soul mate, your relation will require work from both ends. But, it's well worth it.
It may take a life time to find him, but you eventually will. How do I know this? Well, God tells us so in the bible. From the very beginning, after God created the world and all of those things in it, he created man.
But, Adam was alone, and God knew it wasn't good for him. So, he created Eve.
So, God does want you to get married, and be happy. However, it won't be easy, and it won't come quick. You will need to have faith, believe in God, and yourself, do the right things for you, and NEVER settle for second best.
Good luck.....
@michael_nonan (384)
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
dude welcome back. seems awhile that your gone.
breaking up doesn't really necessarily means goodbye. it may also mean that both of you have moved on to your phase in life where you are together and now your not. that you cannot do things like before but doesn't mean you can't be friends right. i believe that a good break, wherein you bought agree that it's not working for you both, would result into a good friendship. i testify to that
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
My friend michael I was so busy with my work, I am back now! But my friend michael I think it's a case to case basis. I just don't like to communicate with my ex. What is done is done. The damage of hurting my heart and my ego as a man. Still I respect your own opinion. Sorry for the late reply! Keep on smiling!
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
10 Jan 09
It largely depends on the individual. There are people who find it very difficult to continue staying in the same relationship and so they break up again and again.
I feel that in the beginning of the affair itself, both should discuss with each other whether both wish for a short-term or long-term relationship. If they do not do that, then one of them might break up and the other person's feelings might get hurt.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
My friend Frederick all of us wants a happy ending, a good relationship, but sometimes even you try it don't work out. Even you showed her love, affection, respect, still she doesn't feel the love, and still she search for a better man that what's usually happens. Sorry for the late reply! Keep on smiling!
@amazingheart (781)
• Philippines
10 Jan 09
The hard of break up is the attack of longings, when you thought its just a right thing to do. When you remember the good things, the wonderful moments, the times of closeness, comfort, and passion, and when you forgotten all the negatives, and recall only the positives, the urge of calling him and be back again. It always an effort to remind your self why "I should not go back."
@snilamupurco_julie (253)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Exactly, breaking up one's heart is really painful. But everything happened for a reason. You have to look forward to even if you still love the person duhhhh... Who ever said that being single wasn't fun? You're free. You don't have to worry about what your partner would think! But don't be too excited to show the whole world that you're all over another person. This will show that you're desperate and still hurting over your ex. It happened to me and it's not healthy at all. Have a happy MyLotting my friend :)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
I know that everything happened for a reason. But it doesn't take a day or night to forget. Still life has to go on. Time will just heal the wounds and mend my broken heart. It takes time to fall in love again. I know I deserve someone better. And I found that woman in my life now. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@wilmonarch (484)
• India
10 Jan 09
breaking up is really a hard thing when they come to know it not really working as they expected ,only a crush could breakup not a love if it happens its not a love