How can you be with someone that wont...

Get out of that relationship. I was in one that was just like that, he wouldn't open up and talk to me about things and now after three years of marriage he has walked out on me without really telling me why. Relationships like that don't work no matter how hard you try or how much you want them too. You will just end up getting hurt. Take it from someone who has been there, done that and got the T-shirt and let me tell you it wasn't a pleasant journey. No one deserves to go through what I have just been through. So get out while you still can.

hi, I think you have to putin some extra effort to make him feel comfortable around you. U need to understand there are different people and as far as i can make out, either this person is really introvert or may be an incident in past have made him like this. Don't give up, if he doe'nt speak to you, you do the intiative, spend more time with him, make him laugh, so that he can feel comfortable around you and slowely and steadily he will start sharing things with you. Goodluck!!

First of all, we have to realize that there are many kinds of people. There are people who can easily open themselves to others and there are people who cannot do that even though they want to. There are people who like to share thoughts and feelings with others and there are people who like to do certain things on their own and don't like to share feelings. I know you are hurt because it feels like he is lying to you, but knowing that people are different and if you really love him, you have to be patient and don't let him feels your anger or disappointment. Try to talk to him, but in a nice way, make him comfortable, make him trusts you. And to do that, of course you cannot let him feels that you don't trust him. It will make him more and more separated from you emotionally. I know it's easier said than done, but you can try it. And never give up. Good luck ^_*

To be honest, I can't be with someone who is not talking to me, why?? first, am a type of person who is very vocal and my life is like an open book to my friends and i love chatting with people. second, how can i be with whom i did not know? i mean his experiences, where abouts, his life as a whole?? well i guess in your case try to communicate with him and try to join him with his interests. make him feel that you are there for him and you can be trusted.

It is not possible to be open to such a person. I will have to ignore him completely. We can only be open to those who are open to us. We can trust only those who trust us. We can love only thos ewho love us. The so-called 'unconditional love' is nonsense. It has been mainly preached by religions for the sake of vested interests.

Frankly, I can't imagine myself with someone who would not open up and talk with me about himself. I would like to assume that your relationship is not grounded on friendship because if it did, you won't have such a problem. Maybe you have not earned your partner's trust and confidence which for me is ironic because I believe that for a relationship to start, trust and confidence is a must. Maybe you may try explaining your thoughts to him by assuring him that you are there for him whatever he is going through and that you will understand whatever problem he has. You have to make him understand that baring one's self is necessary for a long lasting relationship. Good luck and I hope he'll open up soon.

A trust takes time. For how long do You know him? Nobody should push others to become opened and talkative. Some people just don`t like to, or don`t want to talk about what is going on inside them. He looks like from that type, where You have to look very carefully at him and how his feelings and emotions changes, and then ask: what is going on? or-what happened?- to make sure that there is something that he might want to tell you, but hesitates to do. Good luck.

Being open to your partner is important in a relationship.In this way,both of you can create closeness to each other.If he is not that open to you,try to encourage him.There are really those type of person who just keep things by themselves.Be willing to listen also and try not to be irrational.In every relationship,adjustment is necessary,the fact that the two of you are two different individual,different attitude and different views.Show to him that you love him and you care for him.

I have principle in relationship we need to open each other, tell the true, care each other nothing to hide anything to my partner. Why? cos am type person not like get to know bad news from another person about him (my partner) i don't like surprise like that. Is much better i know bad news from him, no matter what my reaction at less am a first person know from him. Same like what i ask to him, i will be same person always tell the true, honest, loyal to him. I will tell any think what he want to know from me. I want be lover, friend, partner for him not just someone to enjoy a best time together, having fun i want to share each other in good and bad situation. In your case, ask him to tell his story but first you must prepare your self to get something maybe you not expecting. And please be wise, i know this is not easy maybe after that you will need time to be alone for while to can understand he story. But u must really understand what he need is someone or place to he can share what he thinking, he feel, any think and all is not always is a good for you hear or maybe that story can hurt your feeling. But i think that is worthy for him and for you. So before you ask to him to share his story, you must make sure no mater what you hear can't make you left him, lose your love to him. What he need is someone can understand him and place to sharing. So can you place your self to be his friend for a meanwhile? not just to be his lover? if is your answer is YES so... what you waiting now? Good luck sis

well maybe it you make that person feel completely comfortable around you. enough where they will feel safe telling you all there problems and whats on their mind. and maybe they wont open up because the been hurt so bad where they cant open up anymore with outthe fear of being rejected by the peers. but most just nake them feel 100% safe in tellingu their secrets or opening up to you but dont give up on them just keep trying

Every person is different. Some people have never learned how to open up to people and others have been seriously hurt by opening up so they have cut themselves off from the outside world. If you really like this guy then you have to understand that maybe the process will be slow for him and that you might have to learn to be patient. Also it may help to show them that they can trust you; that you really care and sometimes that could be opening up to them even when they don't open up to you. Perhaps you can't trust him, but a relationship will never work without trust. He may not understand how him not telling you hurts more than anything he could tell you so you might have to sit down and talk with him about it. I hope I was able to help