Do you stay in the restaurant for a long time after finishing your meal?

@youless (112496)
Guangzhou, China
January 11, 2009 8:22am CST
I will feel embarrassed to stay in the restaurant for a long time after finishing my meal. Perhaps they can continue to have more business by serving more customers. So usually after I finish the meal, I will pay for it and then leave. It's the same even if I have a meal with others.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
11 Jan 09
At a nice hotel having Christmas Dinner - Here is one of the photos I upgrade for you to have a look. I am also there with my colleagues around the table.
Hello again, youless. It depends on how I feel as to how long I stay in the restaurant when having a meal with friends. If I eat alone, I won't stay long there. But if it is a big dinner with many friends, usually we talk while eating until we think that it is time for us to leave. There are times when we colleagues sit together eating at a very expensive restaurant. We eat and talk and have a lot of fun because we enjoy the nice atmosphere there in the restaurant. Here is one of the photos I upgrade for you to have a look. I am also there with my colleagues around the table.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
That's a very nice restaurant
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• China
13 Jan 09
Yes, it is. It is one of the best hotels in the town with a lot of entertainment facilities as well as guest rooms. There have been a few times when we stay there singing karaoke in nice KTV rooms in the hotel after dinner. It is in fact a hotel of our boss, a first-class one. I am lucky to be able to have the chance to eat there together with the foreign teachers and guests on special days like Christmas, and some of our traditional festival as well. Thank you for the response, youless.
• Hong Kong
3 Feb 09
No I wouldn't stay in a restaurant for a long time after finishing the meal. I would leave a short while after. If I want to catch up with friends for a long time, usually we will go for a drink instead.
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Feb 09
Thanks for your response.
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@vicky30 (4766)
• India
12 Jan 09
I too leave the restaurant immediately after finishing my meal.I do most of the talking with friends while eating.If we have to talk more.We pay the bills and then we sit in a garden to talk.
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
It is a good idea.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Feb 09
i do enjoy sitting around after i get through eating, i smoke so i like to do that sometimes even enjoy having a cup of cooffee. i have a friend that i go out with & soon as she swallows her last bite she's ready to go. don't get to go out too often & i sort of like to stretch it out abit.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Feb 09
Thanks for your response.
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@fangxum (43)
• China
21 Jan 09
me too.I don't like those guy stay at the seat for such a long time after finishing the meals especially at the busy time of the restaurant.If it is not busy,the kind of behaviour is acceptable.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jan 09
Perhaps you are right.
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• United States
3 Feb 09
I could stay in a restaurant all day long if they'd let me. I feel guilty and don't stay long after they bring the bill. Sometimes I get dessert and a cup of coffee after a good steak and salad. Don't forget appetizers and doggy bags! hehe
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Feb 09
What a lovely cat
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
12 Jan 09
No dear! I would leave soon after I have had my meal. Normally I go to a restaurant with family and we do leave soon aftetr the bill is paid ,irrespective of the crowd seen in the place.It would look odd if we sit for too lomg after we have finished our meal .Is it not?
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
I think so.
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@4mymak (1793)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 09
it depends.. when we go out as a family, we normally eat during errands.. so we would finish our meals quickly to continue with the errand, and do not sit at the restaurant for long.. but if i go out dining with friends.. we do take our time.. and normally we would order more food, just not to offend the restaurant owners.. but if we do see that the restaurant is packed and people waiting for seats, we would not stay long.. and find elsewhere to sit and chat..
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
I think it's OK. After all, you haven't finished your meal yet.
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@caver1 (1762)
• United States
11 Jan 09
If I am dining alone or just with my own family we will always leave as soon as we have finished eating. But when dining with friends, we like to visit and will sometimes spend another hour just talking after the dishes have been cleared away. If we see the restaurant is very busy and they need our table, we will sometimes leave and go somewhere else for our visiting.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
You are nice.
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@wfyin82 (159)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 09
It depends. If I am having meal alone, I will leave right after i finish the meal. There is no point to stay there wasting our time right. But if we are going out in a group, usually we will stay there and has some chit chat. Maybe 2 - 3 hours chatting none stop. Sometimes we do feel abit shy to use the table for so long, but i cannot meet with my friends so often. Happy mylotting
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
I can understand it
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• United States
12 Jan 09
I really don't like to stay behind either if I have finished my meal. If I am with other people, I do wait until they are finished and we may stick around just to finish off our drinks and then we leave. Normally the most that I would stick around is like 5 or 10 minutes afterwards and then leave. Most of the time though I am the last to finish my meal in a resteraunt and we always leave then when I am finished, or even sometimes I will get a doggy bag and then leave.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
This is a good way that you pack the leftovers. We should not waste the food as there are people who are still starving in the world.
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@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
12 Jan 09
it would depends and i think it is alright for us to continue hanging out in the restuarants even when we finish our meals to chat or mingle around. the reason i choose to dine in a restaurant is because of its atmosphere and environment to allow me to chat with my friends/family members and at the same time to dine. If i cannot stay in the restuarant then i might as well spend my money on eating elsewhere and then chat in starbucks for coffee.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
I can't stay in the Starbucks for coffee. I don't think finishing a cup of coffee will spend a long time
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@JummyTao (265)
• China
12 Jan 09
I don't like eating alone in the restaurant,if necessary i will pay for it and leave after i eat.It makes me uncomfortable eat alone in the restaurant.Maybe sometimes we eat together and talk much after dinner. Happy mylotting....
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
If I have to eat alone, then I prefer to go to the fastfood restaurant.
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@judinbo (312)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 09
after i finished my meal, i will smoking first..after that, i will leave the restaurant.. i dont take long time at restaurant
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
If possible, try to smoke less and it will be good for you.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
11 Jan 09
[i]Hi youless, There are times that we stay a little bit longer when we are with friends whom we have not meet for a long period of time! I know it's embarrassing but we also can't just leave right away since we still love to talk and we know it will be a long time again before we will meet again! LOL! But for regular time, we always leave after eating![/i]
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
If so, then try to finish your meal slowly
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• Indonesia
11 Jan 09
Never. Because I usually eat alone in the restaurant. So I will just eat there. After finishing my meal, I immediately pay the bill and leave. But it will different if I eat with my friends. We will stay long in the restaurant (our favorite restaurant) as if we book it exclusively LOL.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jan 09
I think you must have good time with your friends when you have the meal together.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
11 Jan 09
i can stay longer there specialy if i am waiting for someone.i dont set there without ordering something.its imbarassment if you dont buy something.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
You are quite right
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 09
It depends. If there are lots of people waiting around, we would leave once we have paid the bill. If it's not the peak hour (lunch / dinner), and we have things to discuss, then we would sit and talk.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Jan 09
Thanks for your response.
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• India
11 Jan 09
i dont stay in a restaurant for a long time ,when i go to eat alone .quickly after finishing my meal, i walk out of the restaurant.if go with my friends in a gang,we use to eat slowly.we also have a long chat with our friends event hough we have finished the meal.there was a situation,when one of the bearer has told us leave the restaurant.........i feel bad on this.......it us to decide wheather to leave or not ....happy myloting and have a nice day...
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
Thanks for your response.
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@AbbeyB (670)
• Spain
11 Jan 09
It depends really if I am with friends and chatting away then I usually stay a long time, long after the bill has come out if the restaurant dont need the table then that is fine. If I can see they need the table then I will get up and go.
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jan 09
You are very considerate.
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