One thing that you hate

What I hate about my wife's attitude is when she is suspicious of me even when there is nothing to get suspicious in the first place. And making a small issue into a bigger issue. I hate that.

My guy is the same way about his mother...ugh! But I hate when he will go hours being silent when we are at home together. I mean I have no idea what is going on in his mind and it makes me think he's mad at me when he won't talk to me! lol

for me, with any partner, i hate it when they bring up previous partners and try compare them to you/things you do if oyu know what i mean.

I too have various issues with in my family and my partner like these problems. They will never change them mind set which will lead them mind in that direction not in any other positive direction. It is called them beliefness or interest on them family and loved one. These kind of attitude they have to understand themself and they can come out of this when they realise others too have same characterstics and positive thinking to support every one's feelings.