How to make the most of our time together
By KellyMate
@KellyMate (361)
January 11, 2009 1:52pm CST
Myself and my Boyfriend have been together for 10 months and we live about 50 miles apart. Were both in college, he also works Tuesday and Friday evenings, We only ever see each other about 4 times every 3 months. The distance doesnt cause arguments or anything, I just feel as though the time we spend together goes by too quickly, it almost feels slightly wasted. Weve been through a lot together, and we did have a 2 week break! But it was absolute hell for both of us, so we got back together, and it feels as though we are stronger than ever.
What can we do to make things more special, we always seem to meet in a town because its in the middle of our houses.
I have been to his house twice, and met his parents, when he passes his driving test I know we will see each other more, but what can we do for now?
Please help
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3 responses
@mikkymyde (182)
• Nigeria
11 Jan 09
Understanding is all you need in this relationship and trust..the distance is just for a while and you guys will get to be together for a longer period someday...all you need to do is keep the communication between you guys strong and i wish you two the best of luck
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
11 Jan 09
kelly try and utilize all the time you get to spend together.don't waste it in traveling to distant place instead be where you can have peace and be together and most important where you guys can be yourself.....time is not a barrier it doesn't matter if you are not getting enough time or not,understanding and trust which matters the most.try and make the most from the time in your hands,make it your best moments when you are together....you guys can go to park or movie.......maybe you can cook for him or give a card or a flower.....hope my advise helped you....have a good day[",]
@KellyMate (361)
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11 Jan 09
We do go to the cinema together but We cant really go to each others houses, my mom doesnt allow people in the house, and myself and her dont get on anyway, so its good to get out, and if i went to his, id have to leave at like 2 in the afternoon to get home at the time my mum sets. When he can drive i can get home quicker, because at the moment im catching 3 buses to get there.
Thanks for your response.
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@blink182m (182)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
Try to complement each other I think that's the best way. And always have a respect in each other, we all know trials are just part of life we just got to trust our love one's
