Should I talk to her??

there's a saying that it is easy to forgive but very difficult to forget..the scars remain everytime you see the person..but in a long run..although the pain is just there, the heartache is still present but not as fresh as before...to forgive someone is worthwhile and you could even earn rewards and points of goodness because God don't want us to be enemies to each other..we should love one another as the Golden rule says.

hey do whats right in your heart

you may never be able to forget but to forgive is the greatest thing!

It is time to find peace in your relationship. If it has been two years, it is time to let go of that situation and move forward in your life. We have so many things going on in our lives that we eventually let certain things rule us. One of which is stress and guilt. These two things can cause us a lot of problems. Life is to short to hold grudges. Here is a suggestion: 1) Talk to her, let her know that you are sorry that she is so ill and ask if there is anyway to help. This will help break the ice to begin with. 2) After you are comfortable with this initial moment. Talk about good times that you have had, forget about the past. If you remember the good, it can out weigh the bad. 3) After you have been with her a while and the two of you are relaxed enough, maybe she will open up to you, ask another simple question, "is there anything that you regret most?" If the answer is yes, be the shoulder and listen. Then let her know about something you might regret. One maybe being the loss of communication for so long. In some cases it is best to make amends and get over the negativity than it is to keep it bottled up. Good luck to you and prayers to you and your friend.