how do you get your man to open up....

open communication is very important in every relationship. try to ask open ended questions to your husband so that you will be able to get what his real feelings is. this may give a rift to your relationship if he keeps his feelings with himself. try to assure his that he need not worry about you and the baby in your tummy. If it is okay for you to travel you can go to his place and visit him but you need your doctors approval for that. As much as possible make him open up by starting sharing with him your thoughts and he will feel open with you. hope this helps.

I do not think it is possible for a woman to open up a man because men and women have different hormones and mental attitudes. If the man does not open up, then thre is nothing to do about it. Or you might have to catch hold of some trusted male relative and make him open up your man and then get the information from him. Men tend to open up more to other men than to women. that is what I feel.

I'm sorry that I can't help. I have never been able to get a man to open up and discuss things unless he was just naturally raised to be open. Those who aren't, you're not going to change. You'll have to adapt and watch his body language, tone of voice, things like that to find out what he things because he won't change right away. If you adapt to him, he may begin to adapt to you and relax a little. It's the way they are raised. My own grown sons are open and honest because I raised them that way. Don't push him, just tell him-once or twice a year, no more or it's nagging-how you feel then keep studying him to catch those hints he gives. Men like this want to talk but feel it would compromise their manhood in their own eyes and the eyes of the woman they love, they are compelled to be the strong, silent type.

Hi questionsnoanswers, That is hard, could not go him or he comes to you somehow? some men are like that, they never tell what they are worrying about, they think they have tos houlder everything, maybe he does not want you to worry about things because of the new baby? do you think? Tamara

Maybe he is not ready to open up it yet. :( Or he has to feel truly accepted and need more understanding who he is.Making him feel that you accept his weakness allowing him to say what is on his mind, and simply being willing to hear it. Be patient with him, what he is going through is also not easy for him, that is why he also needs time before opening feelings. Why not do things that you enjoy together while discussing the issue,let your man in the right mood, calm and relaxed. And just take the conversation light?

whew!! so sad.. so lonely.. Be frank to him.. Tell him your worries and your thoughts!! In the first place, take care of the baby inside your womb. Call him or chat him sharing what you had feel now with baby in your tummy. And say for future plans..everything will follow.. don't worry. For now, try to understand him first, he is a man.. and you know, men have pride..very high pride.. so cool down, take care!!