I love texting messages .. BUT.....

@nixxi76 (3191)
Canada
January 11, 2009 10:52pm CST
When a certain co-worker texts me to punch her in at work so it looks like she's on time I hate it. Sometimes I feel like just telling her that I didn't receive her text message so I don't have to do it. There are rules at work that if we use the punch clock to punch other employees in that we could get in trouble. I can see if the person walks in the doors behind me and then I would offer to punch them in but when they are physically not at work yet? I have a hard time saying no to this. Is there a certain reason you don't like to text?
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@hey_baby (425)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
you should tell your officemate that you CAN'T punch in for her. i don't like texting if message is too long, i'd prefer calling. i use chikka text to send free messages and it's more comfortable since i type in the keyboard.
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@hey_baby (425)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
maybe your officemate will realize her fault of not getting what she wanted. you can browse www.chikka.com if you can use it in your country. i'm fr the philippines and i'm using that one to send free sms. :)
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I've never heard of chikka text before. I just might search for that or perhaps you can tell me about it? Suprisingly my officemate was here 45 minutes earlier then when the shift started but she seems to have started some drama at work. I haven't heard about it yet as she's not saying all that much to me. I'm wondering if she found out that I got a fulltime position? That is something that she's been fighting for in the past but the employers won't give it to her or wouldn't give it to her before. Another thing I don't like too much about texting is when someone gets the wrong number and I try to tell them countless times that they have reached the wrong person and they just keep either sending me messages or keep asking who is this? Thanks for your comment
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jan 09
one thing tey charge to much to do text. another I really dont want ot learn how. and I wouldnt punch her in that would really get ya in trouble. really up to her to be there on time! Just tell her ya not gonna do it any more!
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
Hi Lakota! I have unlimited texting so I can text as much as I want to so it's not expensive and she has the same thing on her phone. I'm going to try and build up the nerve to say no to her for punching her in. It may be hard to say no rather than just pretend I didn't see her text message because if I say no, I"m sure she will get in a hussy fit and it will cause a ruffle in her water. Another issue I"m going to have to face with her is that fulltime position that I just recently got, that's the other co-worker that I"m hoping that they gave one to as well so I don't have to her her complaining about why I got it and she didn't? Better yet I wished she would just quit already lol It would sure be a much better difference. Thanks for your comment
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Personally I don't like texting. The text jargon and abreviations get on my nerves and the worst thing is people started to use it in regular e-mails and correspondence. But, this is not really the issue at hand. Obviously you are troubled because you are helping a fellow employee to perpetuate her dishonesty. You got some different advice from Mylot members and you should take the one that suits your own personality best. Myself I would turn my phone off as soon as I got to work and only turn it on in my coffee break to see if I had any urgent messages from family members. Tell her that. Secondly I would also tell her that the punch clock would be moved soon and that you would get in trouble if you continued to punch her in. Thirdly I would tell her that rumours are continuously circulating, one of them being that there is a security camera in the vicinity of the punch clock and you would not want both of you to get in trouble. Trust me you will feel relieved once you are no longer taken advantage of.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
14 Jan 09
It looks like I won't have to tell her anything from now on because it seems that i'm no longer her buddy now because I was offered a fulltime position here at work and I get the feeling that she's upset about this because many times she was trying for a full time nightshift position and our employer wouldn't give one to her because of her being late 124 times in year. Now one of my other co-workers is being quite chummy with her and that's fine. My work is moving the punch clock to where all the nurses are at the desk hehehe. So there's no reason for her to ask anyone to punch her in now. Thanks for your comment
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I say you should just tell her that you wont do it anymore. no offence to her, but you dont want to get into trouble, and she needs to be more prompt at getting to work so that she can punch herself in. . after all that's not a nice thing for a friend to do to another friend, she's putting you in a very bad position by askign you to go against the rules.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I wished she wouldn't do half the things she does. Punching her in is just minor compared to the other stuff. From now on I plan on taking your advice and telling her No! I'm tired of covering for her butt. Let her get herself out of the messes she gets herself into. Thanks for your advice
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
13 Jan 09
With jobs as hard as they are to get now, you'd be foolish to risk losing yours for the sake of someone else. I think you should text her and tell her that as much as you care about her as a friend and co-worker that you just cant risk your job by doing that anymore.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I agree and I also just got promoted to a fulltime position at work so to me she's not worth it forsure. Thanks for your comment
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
I also love texting. But i'm annoyed everytime I received texts from unknown numbers that my friends used to tease me or try my patience. Also i hate texters who are very persistent and likes to repeat sending one message. Sometimes, i off my cellphone when i am already pissed rather than replying them which is not necessary.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I'm wondering if there's a way to block those texters when they just don't quit? You know how you can block someone online say on messenger? Well why not on the cellphone? Thanks for your comment
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
[i][b]I say, honesty is still the best solution to your problem. Confront your co-worker. Tell her you don't feel at ease with her texting you to punch her in for work. Tell her how you feel, you don't owe her anything anyway. Besides, you're just following rules and it's for the best of both of you (you'll both be in the hot water if you're found out). Honestly, there are so many times I turned my cellphone off just because I don't want to receive (and read) messages from a certain person. I have to turn the CP off because the next thing the person will do without a reply from me is call me. I hate that even more. [/b][/i]
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
You just gave me another brilliant idea maple! I'm going to turn off my phone tonight and when she comes in she will ask me if I got her text and I'll give her that puzzled look and say NO? hehe. I should actually be honest though it's a good idea. I don't like confrontations or arguements though. I know what you mean by when friends not being able to get a hold of you on the CP then because they can't, they feel they have to call you. Thanks for your advice
• United States
13 Jan 09
I love to text no matter what. haha im addicted to it.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Thanks for your comment
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Giving in to her request once is enough, otherwise you'll be tolerating her going to work late. Am expecting text messages for our manning, leafletting or assemblies from our sales office, what I don't like in texting if they would instruct me to go on tenting or manning a site where am not scheduled to do for the reason that the assigned or scheduled one didn't show up.
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Thanks for your comment
@snowcat46 (2322)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I have to type all my letters. I just hate that shorthand stuff! It's too much like cheating. I'm like you, I don't like to argue or get people in trouble. But she doesn't seem to have a problem with getting you in trouble. It sounds like she's a user. If you're caught doing that, you will be fired. She's not worth it. If you have a hard time arguing, just keep saying no. Don't come up with reasons, just say no and walk away. Or turn your phone off, like the others told you. That works too. If she can text you to clock her in, she can call work to tell them she's going to be late. She's their problem, not yours.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Thank you snowcat. After reading your comment I feel that I can have more faith in myself and more of a backbone too. I will just say no or better yet turn my phone off. Thanks for your comment
• India
12 Jan 09
i also love text msging but i feel so lazy in typing this msg because i hate this typing so i feel lazyness
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
Thanks for your comment!
• United States
13 Jan 09
I dont like texting that much. My cousin texts 24/7 and its annoying with the alert buzzs. I hate receiving text where they just say like one word- "hey" and "whats up?" Nothing important ever comes out. And sometimes I forget to turn my phone off and someone texts me at school. Oh my god bye bye phone, gotta pick up after school.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
Yeah I'm not much of a fan when it comes to one worded text messages either. Thanks for your comment
@FDBrister (115)
• United States
12 Jan 09
You're setting yourself up for trouble by clocking someone in at work. You're helping that other person STEAL from the company. There are ethical and legal issues here. It could be considered fraud. It sounds to me like this coworker considers you a pushover and you allow them to treat you that way. It sounds like you need to get some back bone and tell that person you're not going to do that for them anymore. EVER. I'm sure if there was ever a situation where you asked her to do the same for you, she'd give you a list of reasons why she shouldn't. You really need to make her deal with her own problems honestly. She's an adult, make her act like one.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
You're right I do need to get a back bone and make her realize that she needs to act like an adult. I think that's what I needed to hear. Thanks for your comment
@thanxiang (126)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Honesty is till the best policy.Tell her frankly that you hate doing it coz it is not good.What she wants is considered as cheating.Your other co-workers might notice it even if they dont tell you.So better not tolerate her by just texting you to punch her.She should come on time so you both will not be in trouble.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
13 Jan 09
I agree and thanks for your comment
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
12 Jan 09
I would just tell her if you get caught you could lose your job over that so you can not do it anymore. If your unable to say that then tell her you herd that they installed a hidden camera facing the time clock so it's impossible for you to punch anyone in but yourself.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
That's a great idea! I think I will say that. Soon I won't be able to punch her in because they are moving the punch clock behind the nursing station where all the nurses and other co-workers are at all times lol. All in all I won't be able to punch her in anymore as soon as they move it there and I hope that's soon. In the meantime I think I might say that they placed some hidden cameras there Thanks for your comment
@KaMlBob (786)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I text simply because I loathe talking on the phone, so If I need to get a short message to someone I will text. You are risking your job by punching someone else in. Tell that co-worker that you know it's wrong and you do not feel right about it and you are scared your going to get caught, what if another employee sees you doing it and reports you? In this economy, you'd hate to lose your job.
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@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
Well, that's just a terrible situation you're in. Those are just one of the few reasons why I hate texting but one of the most important reasons why I don't like it is because it makes youngsters become poor in spelling and vocabulary. Most of the time they are texting and shortening the words or substitute words very ridiculously spelled for the right terms.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
That is so true with the way computer lingo is now and the shortening in words. It's not a great way to set examples for youngsters! Thanks for your comment
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
Hi there! This could be a little harsh to say but I think your friend is taking advantage of your being good. Though you are friends I don't think its a good idea to save your friend from getting in trouble when you yourself could get in trouble. The best thing to do is tell your friend that you can't do it anymore because it's bad and that your conscience is reminding you to stop it. He/she should try her/his best to be on time for work. If ever your friend gets mad at you, then she/he is not a true friend to you. Your friend must understand your reasons and be responsible to go to work on time. With regards to texting, I only text and ask favor if its really really important and that no one could get in trouble because of it. I don't text just for having a chat but I do get in touch with people I know every once in a while. Ciao!
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
See.. that's what texting should be all about just keeping in touch with friends or if you need to know something. Not to put other friends in situations where they could get fired lol. I'm not sure if she thinks about that part while texting me but I wished she would ask someone else to do it. Or better yet.. how about being on time for work everyday? We work nightshift and her excuses are always that she slept in. I honestly don't think she can handle nightshifts because she was even put on probation for having 125 lates in one year's time. Thanks for your comment
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
12 Jan 09
Here's what I would do in your situation. I'd tell her that a supervisor caught you clocking her in and told you that if they caught you again you'd be fired. Then tell her that you will not do it again. Tell your co-worker to learn how to tell time and be more punctual
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
I would do that but I can see her checking with that supervisor to see if that really happened. Thanks for the advice I appreciate it.
@MizzLadyB08 (1174)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I will just tell her the truth. Let her know you can't keep punching her in because you is putting yourself in danger with losing your job over something like that. I wouldn't care if she get mad about it because I feel if everybody else can get the work on time why can't she. Its funny because I went through that at a job I had but she never text me, she call my phone before I even left the house and I just came right out and told her that I can not keep doing that because I do not want to lose my job over her. Back to the real question at hand, I do not mind texting but sometimes it is kind of nerve wrecking trying to type in words all the time.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
12 Jan 09
I just have to keep thinking that she's not worth it! I'm sure she would not do this for me if I was the one always late. I wished someone would put her in her place and I really don't want to be the one to do that. Back to the real conversation.. about texting.. I wanted one of those LG Rumor phones because it had a texting pad on it and it looked like a keyboard. It made texting look really really easy. I went to take this cellphone in that I have now and see if I could trade it, and they wouldn't let me because I didn't come back within 30 days when I purchased the phone Thanks for your comment