marrying a none virgin girl
By arrah_1027
@arrah_1027 (190)
Philippines
January 12, 2009 10:32am CST
I have a friend who belongs from a conservative family that have accidentally lost her virginity to a wrong guy three years ago,the problem now is: she is getting married and she worries much that her fiancee might get discover on their first nights that she's no longer virgin. She seeks advice from me, and I don't know how to help her. How do a man knows if his girl has been divirginized already? How would he feel if he founds out that his wife has been diverginized? would he change(love and respect for the girl) toward her wife? In order to comfort my friend I told her that he might not noticed it since it only happened once especially that it've been three years ago..the thought relaxed her but I still worry for her.Is my thought right? help mylotters.
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2 responses
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 09
There is no point in hiding it because he will notice it. The best thing is for her to be honest with him. This way he knows what he is getting. If he is not informed now there would be problems after marriage, unless he had done the same thing.
The worst that could happen after the truth has come out is the breaking off of the engagement. Better now than later. Anyway, there will be someone prepared to accept her as she is.
all the best,
rosdimy
rosdimy@arrah_1027 (190)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Oh yes truth will set her free..
anyway there is stll more up to her..
love is the only answer to her problem
and you're absolutely right.
@luvandpower (2048)
• United States
12 Jan 09
I am not sure if there is a right response to this...
In one sense, a female can seem to not b ea virgin, while on the other hand it could have happened from other reasons. All I can actually say to do is for her to explain this to her soon to be husband. If he truly loves her it should not matter.
