Does Looks Really Matter???

United States
January 12, 2009 5:37pm CST
When I decide to start a relationship with someone I would like that person to be attractive as well... I think that we should compliment each other... I know most people say it's the personality that counts and I agree but, wouldn't be nice if they were a good person and are really attractive?? How do you feel "Does Looks Really Matter??"
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9 responses
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
i think it does but not really much. for me, someone i could live with. a kind heart and faithful love. of course someone i could look at each day and tell her how much i feel for her. i think that would be enough for me.
• United States
13 Jan 09
In the end, yes, it is personality that makes the relationship last. But honestly, it is the other person's look that draws you to them, makes you find out about their personality. Just as you wouldn't pick up an ugly guy in a bar, you wouldn't marry someone whose personality doesn't suit you just because they could be a fashion model..... Well, okay, some people would pick up ugly people and other people would marry someone just because they are attractive. But the majority of the population would not. There is always the chance of falling in love with a friend who you are not initially attracted to but those relationships are the thing of romantic comedies and work out once in a great while.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
As for me , it doesn't matter for as long as we love each other and we accept one another then, i guess we can have a good relationship. =)
@Sheldon25 (193)
• Jamaica
13 Jan 09
Hello i do believe that looks have a lot to do with a relationship. I think someone should find a person with looks to compliment each other. I personally try to find ladies that are more beautiful than i am. I also think they should have a good attitude thanks.
@Sheldon25 (193)
• Jamaica
13 Jan 09
Hello i do believe that looks have a lot to do with a relationship. I think someone should find a person with looks to compliment each other. I personally try to find ladies that are more beautiful than i am. I also think they should have a good attitude thanks.
• United States
13 Jan 09
I think when you are start a relationship with someone you are attracted to them for some reason, whether it be their sense of humor, personality, etc. I've never started a relationship solely on looks and I've certainly been attacted to, what some may say, are unattractive men...but to me they were the most handsome because of what I seen in them.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Well it may count but later in the course of your relationship that will not matter anymore. Looks are very temporary what last longer is love. Sometimes looks could be deceiving in the long run.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
For me, with all hinesty, looks really matters. I always wanted to end up with a good-looking guy. And it does happened. We are married for almost 7 years now and have three lovable kids. But of course, personality is still very important.
• United States
12 Jan 09
I tend to look at both. The looks and the personality. The personality kind of overrides the looks though. But I believe though although people are saying that they are looking for the personality, they are probably in the back of their mind looking at their looks. I believe that there should be some attraction there period.