the word DOUBT
By jheiem
@jheiem (142)
Philippines
January 13, 2009 1:53am CST
in life, there are so many things that we should have our decision, in school, personal life, family life and even religious life. but i want to ask that is that normal if you have this hesitation in choosing a decsion over one problem. i mean do we need to have a regret if we failed on that decision and thought that "if i chose the other choice then i might succeed on this," a stuff like that? do i need to have a doubt on choosing and standing on what i believe is right?
2 responses
@mmgonzales (882)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
Hesitation is normal act because it is the result of fear. Fear of the unknown things to happen. If you had doubt and nit so sure about something to decide for better acknowledge the help of your parents. Or if you need not to have help of others and tge decision should be yours any decision is good but be ready for the consequences. Anything you choose there are consequences to follow. So be better to be ready for that. One good thing you can do is write all the choices you have. List also the positive and negative outcome then choose...
@twinklee (894)
• India
13 Jan 09
Hi,
Certainly not, if you choose a decision, and if it was not a success, you literally don't have to feel for it, anyways it is our human mentality to compare with the options, we do think that what we have chose before is wrong and we do regret, but is that all going to solve our problem, so it is better to take the life as it is, and value each and every decision of ours, may be it is not a success today, it might be tomorrow. By the course of the wrong path, we not only learned that it is a wrong decision, we probably learned few instances, steps, implementations to arrive at that result. So noting is waste, we should tap our shoulders that at the end of the day ,we have learned some thing, or think with this attitude "i have done things in a different way". May be next time we select the better options, and for those who select the right path all time, don't have the BAD EXPERIENCES, but we do have that ,and we can overcome any situations in the future. Life has many fluctuations, ups and downs, if we start enjoying our decisions that is taken each and every minute and succeed with that mile stone, i hope we can be tagged as "OPTIMISTIC".
Hope this helps. Take care:)