what's the point of bachelor parties?
By oyenkai
@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
January 13, 2009 7:58pm CST
and strippers and lots of alcohol? Isn't that a sort of lamentation that you're actually giving up your singlehood? And doesn't that mean that you're not happy that you're committing the rest of your life to just one person?
I don't know about you. But when I get married and I found out that such a bachelor party took place - with strippers and my future-husband getting drunk, I'm calling the wedding off.
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@iceyelo (46)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Hahaha. Nice arguement. But bachelor's party are suppose to be a time for the groom to thank some friends and say goodbye to singlehood. Its not a lamentation, it is a celebration of what have been a great single life. Strippers are just accessories. and they are just add ons and not mandatory
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Welcome to myLot and I'm guessing you're a Kabayan :)
I don't get why such an "accessory" is favored by many. I know that it's supposed to be a celebration but having strippers around seem to insult the holy commitment to be made the very next day. And in addition, you make it sound like a great single life does entail having stripper around :P - that's just how I interpreted the arrangement of the argument :)
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Jan 09
well a lot of bachelor party a lot of things get out of hand.some cases the marriage is off after a bachelor party.personally these types of party require a lot of self control.if you are weak my advice is don,t do it .
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
26 Jan 09
My fiance and I are both against Bachelor Party's or Bachelorette Parties. We don't like the idea of getting drunk, and strippers would be akin to feel like we're cheating on one another. I agree that it's almost like a cry that your not ready for the commitment. My fiance and my friend wants to have a party for my fiance, but at the same time he knows and respect that neither of us (nor our friend for that matter) drink, so therefore it'd be more like a hanging out session for the two of them, plus friends then anything else... no girls, ofcourse.
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