How can I know if he loves me??

Italy
January 14, 2009 6:05am CST
I have a boyfriend for quite a long time now..well 6 months, a break and now another 6 months. But in all this time even if we have been constantly together and almost never having any serious problems, we have never said each other "I love you". I think that it will be really pathetic if I say I love you and he looks at me like...I'm sorry, I don't.. So is there something else that I can do to understand if he does love ??? What do you guys do when you love someone???
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
14 Jan 09
i think u can try being away some days, maybe if he missesu, he will call u or msg u, atleast if he loves u he will say that he is missing u, also if u want to say it urself u can try some indirect method like saying...i like to be with u, i like the way u care, if he responds interestingly......there are many ways ....then u can understand that he loves u, but be sure that its really love or just care, otherwise u will be hurt if u take it as granted.
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• Italy
14 Jan 09
that's exactly my problem. I am sure that he cares a lot about me, because he has shown in many ways that I can rely on him, even in the period when we were separated. But I always have this doubt that he is with me , because it is convenient , and not because he is truely in love..
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
I guess the sign if someone really love you even without saying I love you word, he calls you to say he is going away on a business trip for a few days but would like to see you before he goes, wants to talk while he away,, intent on making plans once he returns, all sign point to the fact that he honestly into you. He takes the time to get to know and appreciate your friends. If a guy has ulterior motives or just is not interested in who you really are, he won't bother looking you in the eye."Catch your guy mid-conversation, look into his eyes, whisper sweet nothing into his ear, and observe whether his pupils dilate. If they do, you could start thinking about that wedding dress and honeymoon destination, because that's a clear indicator the he is smitten. Dilated pupils show positive feelings." Says Givens.