How does fear of rejection affect you?

Fear of Rejection - Man dragging a ball and chain. Retrieved 1/15/2009 from: www.eruptingmind.com
France
January 15, 2009 4:40am CST
There was a time when fear of rejection kept me from trying certain things in my life, like talking to a stranger I wanted to talk to or trying for a job I really wanted. I'm older and less inclined to fear rejection now, but I still have to sometimes make a conscious effort to overcome thoughts of rejection. Yet other people I know don't even hesitate. It's as if it doesn't occur to them they might be rejected. And guess what... they seem to be rejected less often. Their confidence results in them being more attractive and less likely to be rejected, or so I tend to believe. How about you.. are you shy, timid, fearful of rejection? Or are you the type of person who boldly goes forth with no thought of rejection? How does fear of rejection factor into your life? Is it a fear we should give some heed to, or one we should completely ignore? Interested to hear your comments.. P.S. If you suffer from this, I ran across the following site that may be useful, although I haven't read it yet. Tell me what you think: http://www.eruptingmind.com/overcoming-the-fear-of-rejection/
2 responses
• India
15 Jan 09
well frankly speaking most of the people have fear of rejection in something or the other. But it takes a brave heart to fight with his own fear and react accordingly. If we have fear of rejection then we are not going to get progress in our life. The fact of life is to move ahead with every passing moment but if we restrict ourselves from doing something just because of the fear of rejection its not going to do any good to us. So the best way is to overcome the fear of rejection from our life, i guess thats the only way to keep moving ahead in our life and also we should have self confidence to overcome that.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
15 Jan 09
hello TheCasualReporter! I do afraid of getting rejected too. Even here in mylot I have fear about it. In real life, I always made it sure that the person I will approach won't reject me. I know it's not good but I hope I can change myself. What you wrote above are quiet true.