Did you get tired of being a friend?

Hi izathewzia! Yes, I do need some time off when I feel that they start to be so demanding. I usually give in to favors but there are those times that I just can't take it anymore. However, I am so glad that my two best friends are not demanding. We respect each other's space and just be happy for what we can give and share such as the limited time we all have to spend with each other. Hi skysuccess! Take care and have a nice day! lovelots..faith210

well, sometimes we need our space, and even thought friends are very important, there are times when you want to put your thoughts together and concentrate in your own goals, that doesn´t mean you don´t want to hang out with them, it just means you deserve some quietness to better yourself as a person and therefore you´ll be a better friend.

[i]Hi iza, I am not tried of my friends but I have one close friend who recently always bothering me about money, she wants to borrow from me and she knows that I am not working,,,,I didn't like it so, I am like putting a wall for her to be too much comfortable with me! I used to do this when I was single and working and I know she pays me back and she is responsible but this time, I am not working and I am married...So, I love and care for her, but I just need to draw a line so that she will also realized that I am not single anymore and I cannot just do things right there and then![/i]

there is a few i get tried of, and i can't spend lot of time with because they get on my nerves, and these are the ones i tell this too. i am like ok time for you to leave cya..

No way i get tired of being a friend, i love to be in and out with my friends, day by day i posses to have more friends, i love to talk with them, share everything with them, Sometimes if i be with my friends for a long time, i too get bored

I think friendship is the only relationship that requires no obligation. You do them a favor, you are there whenever a friend needs a shoulder to cry on, you inspire them when they lose hope, and being there for them, you do all these things because you want to and not because you have to. But sometimes, some people get to dependent on their friends. They tend to forget that their friends have a life too, they have their own problems to attend to. Sometimes they can't make decision for themselves. Now that's a problem. And i think that makes a friend tiring. Anyway, just be honest. Have a heart to heart talk with your friend. Whatever happens, real friends understands you.

Well, it never happend with me. I have many friends but all of them are working at different places. So we rarely meet, i miss collage days it was so much fun. Even when i was in collage it never happened, i always had fun with my friends.

Certainly. I have lot of friends. Some of them are good and they won't allow me to be tired. But some friends... They indeed make me so tired. I can't fulfill their requirements, in this especially girl friends. Now a days I am really scare to meet and talk to them. However, we have been friends for long. How can I avoid them??

oh yes, i do. Like you, i get tired of all their demands. Some group of friends are so happening that every other day we're out doing some gathering. Other individual friends just bolt me down with their never-ending and re-occurring problems. Therefore, i tend to "lie" to them so that i can get some private space at home.

Same with you, I have so many friends.. Yes, I sometimes get tired also being their friends because some behavior and attitude that I always need to accept and understand.. I know that getting tired being their friends is wrong since true friends never get tired with each other and never get tired of being understanding to them.. However, my patient isn't that big for me to always understand and accept what their behavior are and how their attitude contradict with out friendship.. Well, I'm not saying that I don't want to be their friends anymore.. All I'm saying is that I just need space to breath and have some fresh mind.. If they need me I'm always there for me anytime.. They know how to contact me.. Of course, it doesn't mean that I need space they must not bother me at all.. They were still my friends and no matter how I felt for them it won't change our friendship and I'm always be there for them no matter what happen for as long as they need me and they still consider me as a friend..

I did this recently. My friend was getting on my nerves. I ignored her for two weeks. It made her angry but she was over it as soon as we had a five minute telephone conversation when i called her.

To be honest, yes, sometimes. I got tired sometimes. For example, one afternoon, one of my friend asked me to help her doing something with one photo by using photoshop, I said OK I will, please waiting a moment, because I just learnt the software only about one month, I can't use it prefectly, but she still said quickly quickly. :( The thing was not the end, the most worse thing is another friend of mine gave me a call, asked me to come to her office upstair, I said I have something to do now, but she just said, I don't care, just coming here as quickly as you can and then finished the call. So sad, at that moment, I feel tired. In the most time, friends are best choose for oneself, chatting with them about your happiness, your sadness. Anyhow, when I feel tired I will just have a little break, and think about the help they gave me. *^_^*

Yes. It's fine to take a break from them. If they don't want to be friends again afterwards, that's their loss. A real friend realizes when the other just needs some alone time. We all need that. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

never.in my life,friends are the one of the most important part in my life

I have had a couple friends who I needed to take a break from. One we never went back to being friends. I think people arein your life for a reason and if you don't need each other anymore then you just stop getting together. It isn't a bad thing, it just happens over your lifetime. If friends get too needy it tires me out and I have too much on my own to worry about then to always be supportive to them and never get the support back.

Looks like you are very popular. An overdose of anything is bad, so what you are doing is just right. When you feel pushed in a corner with their demands, you must distance yourself and give some time to yourself. Its a must. You must have time for yourself and your family. Guess your friends know you by now and dont mind. Great going. Cheers.

Hahaha, I know that feeling. I have a friend who just does not now when to leave me alone. Always complaining, always needing some favor. I love to help, but I need some time away from her. I just get tired of hanging on the telephone, because she feels lonely again. She used to get angry because she could not contact me. (I just did not pick up the phone, hahaha!) I hate that, it was like we had a relationship or something. I am my own boss, I like to do what I want. I don't like it when I have to be available all the time. I have a boy friend, that is enough, hahaha! But like you, after I have had my time, I will come back. But I like my freedom too. Take care.