Which One Are You?

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Hi mylotters, I had this sheet of paper with me for a while and would like to share it with you and tell me which one are you? Aggressive People: - express feelings and opinions in a way which threaten others. They want to get their own way- no matter what! Being aggressive means you try to get what you want no matter what the consequences are for others. (2) Using Loud voices (3) involves threatening people. (4) Uses the words as "You'd better...", "If you don't...", (5) Usually insults or offend other people. PASSIVE PEOPLE Hope to get what they want but leave things to chance or to others. Passive people often hope to get what they want but do nothin about it themselves. Whine about things. Are not honest with their feelings. Wait and expect others to know what they want. Uses the words "Maybe you...", "I guess..". When we are passive we often diminish our own worth. ASSERTIVE PEOPLE: Being assertive means to tell someone what you want in such a way that you don't infringe their rights or dignity. It means standing up for your own rights without violating the rights of others. Assertive people ask for what they want, Uses a calm and controlled voice. Are direct and open. Ask confidently. They use expression such as " I would like...", "I think..." So mylotters, which one are you?