can you love two people @ the same time

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Ok im torn between my first love and the man im currently with my first love is around my age when we were together we were young and all we did was argue and fight but we were just right for each other same childhood problems looking for a place or a family to fit in then we created a family it was good for a while but you know that saying never talk to ur friend about your relationship well that was the case in my situation. We broke up we moved on .....kinda....now the man im with now we are 10 years apart and complete oppisites I wanna have fun like go to the movies go out to eat and he isn't into any of that he wants to stay home watch cnn and espn and nba on his days off he is a good guy but there is no communicating @ all unless we are talking about work (we work at the same place different shifts) so lately my first love has been telling me he misses me andthat we should try to work things out cuz we were so young and had no idea about what were doing years ago and now that we are more mature. I wanna say yes and be with him so much but I don't wanna break things up with the man im with now but honestly we (my current man and I) aren't really going anywhere in this relationship its just year to year till he goes back to his country to be with his family but I don't wanna be that girl known as a heart breaker or loose if you get the picture but shouldn't I do what makes me happy or just leave the past in the past.