How to find a perfect spouse?
By youless
@youless (112494)
Guangzhou, China
January 15, 2009 8:59pm CST
I learned a very interesting news. If your boy/girl friend gives you a perfume but it has the worse smell in your opinion. That means to say you hate this perfume's smell. Congratulations! That means to say your boy/friend has the perfect gene for you and you will be perfect couples
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
16 Jan 09
Lol
My perfect spouse would never buy me perfume at all. He knows I am to sensitive to scents and that I have to be part of the buying process. He does know the few that work for me, but I use them so rarely that he doesn't have many opportunities to buy them for me.
I once had a high school boyfriend who bought me perfume and my dad teased me relentlessly saying he was telling me that I smell bad.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Hi youless! Really? That is interesting! No wonder my husband and I are not too perfect for each other because when we were still going out together, he gave me a perfume which I really love. haha..Now, I know why! I should have married that someone who gave me a perfume that in my opinion gave me a worse smelling perfume. haha..
Take care and have a nice day!
lovelots..faith210
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
16 Jan 09
it was a very interesting news..hope im still a single..cheers
@wfyin82 (159)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 09
Haha.. this is funny. I mean, the girl can judge whether his boy is suitable for her by asking him to present her a perfume. If she like the smell, she should dump the boy. OMG. Pity the boy who really care for the girl and present her with something she like and get dumped. I think we should not trust this kind of news. Girl should judge her boy by analzing him. Focus on his love, care, behavior and attitude toward her. If she finds everything is ok and acceptable, then he is your white horse prince. This apply to boys too.
Happy Mylotting!!!
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
19 Jan 09
Well, I do not really understand this. Why would he be the perfect spouse if he gets me the perfume that I hate the smell that much? That means he does not understand me at all, isn't it? Why would he still be the perfect one? It's because he dares to give me something that I do not like?
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
as the saying goes NOBODY IS PERFECT. having a partner you should be emotionally ready to accept his/her short comings and appreciate what he/she can do. we have to also support them on what they do and tell them what is wrong or what you dont like in a nice way. critisize them in a nice way. there are no perfect spouse but if you work together it will be a perfect relationship
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
19 Jan 09
I do not understand this at all.
How does hating the smell of the perfume he/she gives make the two of you compatible?
Can you explain a little more of what you mean?
And what has the smell of perfume got to do with genes?
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
19 Jan 09
hmm... I still cannot see the link.
It is like so easy to buy something your partner would hate.
It is like a dime a dozen at some store selling cheap perfumes.
I find this scientist's findings a bit dubious.
No logical explanation at all at how he came to such a conclusion?
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@youless (112494)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Jan 09
I don't understand, too. But the scientists found that if your spouse doesn't like the perfume you give him/her, that means to say you are perfect match for each other. You know sometimes it's hard for me to explain as this truth is found by the scientists
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@MAMABLAZE (242)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Well I find this to be interesting. My hubby did present me with a couple of colognes over the years I did not really like. That must be part of reason we fell in love...heh? So how did you know your hubby would be perfect for you if you don't wear perfume?...Mamablaze!!
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
16 Jan 09
huh? thats new for me too.never heared about it
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@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
23 Jan 09
Haha, thats interesting.What if i like the perfume's smell. Does that mean the opposite?
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@tonytt2009 (1706)
• China
19 Jan 09
Interesting tell~how to find my perfect spouse?It's not easy to answer somehow,maybe I've married or maybe something else~I would say just for the feeling with the boy/girl.Am I right?
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@chriswolf (360)
• China
16 Jan 09
But what is the point.
you hate the smell but like the boy, right?
In fact, I doubt there is some sort of perfect thing in the world. It is also beautiful to be un-perfect.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 09
Really youless, the news sharing here is quite interesting, for the result given here is out of my expectation. By right, we will be happy only to receive perfume with the fragrance we love as gift from our boy friend, right? And normally we will feel unhappy and even irritating to find that the perfume with smell which we hate the most.
I think for an ordinary person like me, usually would blame him more than to praise him for never understanding what I actually like. if to choose the true love by this way, I think I could hardly find one. Anyway thanks for sharing such funny information here to have amusement
Happy posting and have a wonderful day!
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@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
18 Jan 09
LOL!! This is really hilarious. Where do you find such great jokes?
Cheers and happy mylotting
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
16 Jan 09
No such thing. That would mean you yourself would have to be perfect too. And if you are both perfect, kinda boring. Sometimes it is the differences that make things worth it. Truest test of love is accepting each other even with the imperfections.
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
16 Jan 09
Although first time feeling plays an important part, I believe second thought is equally important. To be a lifetime partner, he must share with you the same values, he must special in your eyes and heart. And he must behave decently to his friends, in his family and to your family.
In order to minimize future problems, better give yourself some time to double think to reach the best possible balance in terms of education, personality and family background.
@amazingheart (781)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Awwww!! That's a great news LOL!! I wish someone will give a perfume to me that has worst smell LOL But what about if he gives perfume that I like? That means that we can't be a perfect couples in the future..? That sad.. :( What is the connection of giving a perfume that has bad smell, and finding the right man for you?
@ktosea (2026)
• China
16 Jan 09
well,as far as I am concerned,no one is perfect in this world,he or she may have many kinds of flaws,the one who will be most proper for you will be the perfect one for you,if you keeps looking for a girl or man who is perfect for you,you may miss your opptunities
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