i thought i cant move on, thank goodness i am.

yes, madposas, let go. it is best to let a person go and be free if he has lost his loving feelings already. for what good would it be to hold to someone who will not treasure the other in return. it will only be so hurting, so burdensome, and so worrying. you are right about letting go of the feeling, of airing it and finding some way to get it out. anyway, that is how true love is, letting go of the one you love if you find out that he/she is happier with somebody else. move on, friend, may you soon find the one person who is meant for you. be patient the right one is just lurking somewhere around you. most probably, just waiting for the right time to uncover the feelings that has been hiding all these days. it could be that the apprehensions that you will be rejecting the person is what has been holding him till these days. just wait...