First love never dies - Do you believe on that?

Philippines
January 16, 2009 1:44am CST
As we continue struggling in our daily lives, we come to a point that that we are falling in love, it may be an infatuation, but for the young at heat, it will be the same as love. First love for me is my better sweet memories. At first, i believed that first love never dies. But for some instance, i found that girl, after a long heartache the boy in me felt and carried for a long time, i finally realize that i've been totally over that first experience in love of mine. Well, not all are like me i guess, there are still these what we called "romantic at heart" that treasures their first love. Coz for them "FIRST LOVE REALLY NEVER DIES".. And you??
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@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
[b]marky your first time here? wow.... nice to see you here... well i might say.... first love really dont die easily when it is 1st and true love.... when your in love you like in heaven.... feeling good and happy...[/b]
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• Philippines
16 Jan 09
hello.. yep, some sort of that. wala pang 2weeks. and i enjoy the discussion. Nice to see you here also, and whew! nice stat.. Have a nice day! by the way, you still have feeling for your first love? :D
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@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
i do... but the bad thing was... its a long long time ago... and the gap between us are very very far from reality... and when i remember her... i always feel sorry for whats i did in that time... if i only give my self to push it harder for her to accept me too i might be a married guy now.....
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@ellovire (409)
29 Jan 09
i believe that once we fall in love, we really cannot forget the feeling. it only means that if we fell in love the 2nd, 3rd, 4th or 5th time, the experiences we had for the person/s remain, thus it never die. so everytime we fall in love, we cannot totally forget all that happened during the relationship. these experiences can make us stronger and wiser for the next relationship to come.
@ktosea (2026)
• China
16 Jan 09
first love is not everything,you don't need to get deeply into it.the one you loved now is the one you should really concern.first love will just be a experience in your love life.I'd rather let it go and treasure the one I am in love with now.
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• Philippines
17 Jan 09
Well, thats true. But for some, their first love is also their last. They are the one who don't have to be ask this. happy mylotting.
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• United States
17 Jan 09
In my experience first love can most certainly die but never be forgotten.
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17 Jan 09
Sorry but I don't think I am a good judge. I met my wife when we were both 19 on holiday in Blackpool. They do say holiday romances never last and that may be but we just had our 52nd wedding anniversary last month.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Jan 09
i don't think u ever forget your first love. i sure don't sit around & think about him or grieve for him. in fact i'm glad i didn't get him he hasn't turned out to be a very nice person so thatmakes me thankful we went our merry ways. lol
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• Philippines
17 Jan 09
I thought I'll never gonna live without my first love.But things don't get good with us. fate coveted our puppylove.I do everything to prove to him that I'm worthy of the love against all odds. And then I realized that we can live out of love.Love will eventually fade if we're not financially stable.So I started avoiding him.Forgot him and moved on.Until now I still don't know if I have really loved him or was it pity after all.I still have this guilt inside of me reason for me not to ever see him again all my life.
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• Malaysia
16 Jan 09
I think we will always have an attraction to individuals we fell for in the past because the attraction is what made we having had a relationship with the person at the first place. So I guess when we meet our first love, we will always remember the moments and may still love him/her. But we can always choose to elaborate this feelings into a love relationship or just a friendship. I think it is part of being matured to accept that you might not be with all the people you are attracted to.
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• Brazil
16 Jan 09
There are some love relationships that we keep in our hearts for longer than others but this doesn´t mean they never die. I am right now in this situation. A relationship that didn´t work for the most stupid reason: distance. And that still hurts a lot. But I know someday it will pass like always happens. I think with first love is just the same. For an impossible love... time.
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• China
17 Jan 09
Hi,friend.I agree with your viewpoint.I have never forget my first love,too.Although it had passed for very long time,the memory still kept.
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@ulalume (713)
• United States
16 Jan 09
I believe love is a mutual bond between two people, similar to a magnetic bond. It is invisible but requires two people to create such a bond. If the polarity of one of the people changes in such a way that both "magnets" reject each other instead of coming together (sticking together) then the love "bond" is broken, causing love to cease between these two people. Will an individual feel heart broken and what not? Surely. That is what happens when two forces that once existed peacefully tear apart. This can give the false impression that "love" still exists between these two people. It is not love to mourn when a lover leaves you. I complicate things sometime, and I'm more of a realist than anything the in sense of "love" as I only think enduring love is really love at all.
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@thanxiang (126)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
I consider that as true when i was still young,but now that im big already,i dont believe it coz what i felt before was only infatuation and it wasn't a true love.What i feel now is true love for my hubby.And that's the reason why i said "yes"when he proposed.I already forgotten the person whom i considered my first love before,i forgot the feelings for him also.Have a good day!
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@sara007 (134)
• China
17 Jan 09
i do not think anybody really gets over his first love.
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• India
17 Jan 09
ya it is said to be true............i don't know whether it is a infatuation or what but at such a young age i love some one from class 6th........but never able or dare to tell me..........i totally love her
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• China
16 Jan 09
I believe the first love. Although my first love was ended long ago,I still couldn't forget it. I always miss him. I 've tried to push this kind of feeling away,but it doesn't work. And up to now,I don't konw how could i do to forget him yet.
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
22 Jan 09
I think you will always remember your first love. I mean I will always remember my first boyfriend as well as the first guy I was truly in love with but, the love isn't the same love that I feel for the man I am with now. There is a different kind of love there.
• India
16 Jan 09
Yes, I believe that. My first love was at the age of 11 and it lasted till I was 16. It was of course a calf love type and we never even got talking or anything like that…our conditions were too different to even contemplate anything serious but I still remember that person. Sometimes in my dreams there is just a flicker of that face and many times I have wished if only we could just come face to face once (maybe I wouldn’t recognize him now)
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@suruchi86 (1873)
• India
21 Jan 09
Yes, I have heard this many times and agree to it also. But it never happened to me in my teenage.
@cortney09 (1345)
• United States
24 Jan 09
I don't believe that. I don't know why. I just never have. I guess with some people that may be true, but for me it isn't.
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
18 Jan 09
hey marky.. You are very right in your statement.First love generally happens to everybody when they are at their teenage.At that age we are just entering our adulthood,so every event that occurs to us have a very special impact on our minds & so would be the first love.First love is really special in everybodies memory as we all learn to love from that experience. thank you & have a nice time.
@luck4me (51)
• India
16 Jan 09
love never die"""""its right...no body can wash out the memories of love ....not a negetive situation canu can live ur whole life in the memory of ur real love....love is a wonderful feeling of god..that bring sweetness....in your dull life..a real love can change the direction of ur life..what is first or last ..LOVE IS ONLY LOVE.