I dont like the ex of my hubby...any advice?

She does need to leave him alone however she herself wont ruin your relationship you will if you carry on being so stressed about it, your husband has said he loves you and only you if you trust him leave it at that because its a sure fire way to make a relationship bad if you start to not trust your husband

Well first I have to ask is your husbands ex in the same state and country that he is? I don't mean to make you worry, but the reality is that you and your husband are miles away from each other. I would believe it can put a strain on things being that far away from each other. I also have to ask why you and yourt husband are in 2 seperate parts of the country at the moment? You say the girl just got out of rehab, so it's obvious she's not right mentaly right now. I'm no relationship expert at all. But I would think that by getting out of rehab, she is turning to your husband for comfort right now. It's wierd that she wanted to come to your wedding. You rarely hear of peoples ex's coming to their weddings. Maybe they have kept a close friendship after their relatonship ended. AndI would say she still has feelings for him. I think she is trying to stay close to him for a reason. I'm not trying to give you a reason not to trust your husband. He can't help it if his ex keeps calling. I would hope that your husband is truly faithfull and honest with you about things. His ex wanted to come the wedding, and now she's caling him to hang out with her. I would say she's up to something for sure. Your husband has to make it very clear that he has a wife, and calling him and asking him to hang out isn't cool at all. I know alot of people have history together and never want to permanantly have nothing to do with their ex partners. Especialy when 2 people have remained good friends afterwards. But there is only so much of any friend, male or female that anyone can see so much of. Especialy when there's a relationship involved. If it were his guy friends calling to hang out all the time, it still wouldn't be right for him to leave you at home alone. And it's especialy not cool for him to be hanging out with his ex. But if so, I would say that the 3 of you need to hang out together. Ut it still doesn't justify the fact that this girl keeps calling your husband. Maybe he doesn't wanna be mean to her. I can understand that. But he has to be more nderstanding about your feelings. You are his wife and if accepting phone calls and having ictures of his ex laying around makes you uncomfortable, then he should at least put them away. Or better yet get rid of them. You are his wife and your feelings should come 1st before anything else.

i think the ex needs to leave your husband alone & get on w/her life.