Missing myLotters!!

I have quite a few friends on my list that I haven't seen around for quite some time. But what I do is every end of the month I go through my list and any of my friends that haven't been logged in for three months, I delete them. Then I look for a couple new friends to replace them with. I like to keep my list around 100 and I like people that are very active with posting dicusssions so that I have lots of discussions to respond to. I have all my notify buttons turned on and I only respond to my friends discussions and to the mylot digest discussions. This way I don't have to search for more discussions the way I used to when I was a newbie, and waste so much time searching. I have recently accepted your friendship, that is how I am responding to this one, from my email. I haven't been very active myself, for the last couple months, but once things in my life settle down a bit I will be more active. Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend, Have a good mylotting day, Chris

I miss Ruby. I have an e mail address but haven't used it Humbug. She went to Ciao for a while but I don't know if she's still there or what she calls herself. I remember the others but we weren't close friends. I know that a few have gone in the past few days. They have either been chased off or had enough. Shame when that happens, but I suppose that all our lives must go on.

Hey Humbug, I'm still around, still reading, and when I find the time, I will answer on discussions that I feel related too in some way. I just have to much time needed for my online business to be around here much. I hope to change that in a while when the business will work for itself. have a nice day

I dont think I have seen any of them around. They are not people that I usually see discussions by or about. i will let you know if I run across any of them. They sound like people who might have reasons for not being here.

seems like i don't see alot of names i use to starting discussions etc.my computer was down a couple of weeks & when i came back i didn't recognize alot of people.

I have noticed that snowqueen2008 hasn't been around much, and a few others have been missing too, it could from the change in payment methods some people here dont have paypal and they live in other country's were there unable to receive payment or it could be just that there busy with other things, but hopfully the missing mylotters will return soon.

i was also wondering about some of the mylotters.many of my mylot friends have become inactive or some donot log in as frequently as before due to various reasons.i sure do miss them.

Alas I hae not seen any of them around so cannot help you on that score at all but I do know that often people come to a forum for a while and then for a whole variety of reasons either take a break or stop coming altogether. In my own case although I have been a member for over 2 years I was not very active for quite a while because of work and personal committments. When I came back a couple of months ago and am now here at least 3 or 4 times a week, most weeks anyway, I have noticed that most of those friends I had initially are no longer active. In a couple of instances I do know the people personally and they had told me prior that they have moved on elsewhere but I still leave them as friends in case they one day return. I did send messages to a few others and one replied saying she found her posting numbers decreased etc and it wasn't worth the effort. That is there choice and I guess it can become a bit of an disillusionment if you lose lots of points. At this time I have not deleted any friends but I have noticed that a couple of my friends have gone. So they either deleted me as a friend while I was inactive or they are no longer here on myLot.

quite a few on my list but they were new and didnt have much activity so I deleted them. they haven't been online for months. my close friends are still here. just not active as before because I think they have to get side jobs to survive. I am trying to get more jobs too so I may not be here much when summer/spring starts.

hello Humbug25, It seems to me that those friends of yours are not familiar to me. I can't remember any of them. Maybe I haven't encounter any of their topic or discussion yet, that's why. Or maybe I was able to answer once to their discussion. Whatever their reason why they're not active anymore, I just hope that they're doing fine and okey. Or, it's possible that they change their name here.

Oh I have a lot who are missing since last year. I have been also wondering where they are. I guess they are busy or maybe they decided to stop coming to mylot. I hope someday they will visit this site again. Sorry but I haven't come across anyone of your missing friends. Keep posting!

I dont thave that many friends so can keep track of them quite easily! but I havnt seen any of those names about, maybe they have been de activated or simply left to do other things, I think we get attached to people on here and forget they have "proper" lives and stuff to do lol

hi humbug well i don't know anyone of them maybe they are busy nowadays or may have some problem.....don't worry dear friend they might show up soon till then take care......have a good day

Hi Humbug25, i don't know where they are, if i found them i will tell you.

I have not seen any of them, but i am missing one friend.. transdisc.

Aside from the bear, I haven't seen Erilyn around for a while. Also somebody mentioned Skywolfcel. A few other people have deleted their accounts and come back with new ones.

Hi Humbug, I can understand you putting this discussion on because we do form attachments on the net and I would worry if I hadn't seen regular users for a while but I don't know those particular members you have mentioned but perhaps they are just having a break from mylot, have you tried emailing them ? I think all of my friends here on mylot are my members on my own site so if they did go awol think I would send out constant email notifications to bring them back..lol..I'm sure your friends will show up sometime hun.

Hello Humbug25! Wow! You're such a sweet friend. I only have few friends here. I mean, real friends. But then, I guess I have only known that goharayub has been missing but I know that he's been having trouble with his computer too.