Selecting BR for a discussion is difficult.

@sanuanu (11235)
India
January 17, 2009 7:13pm CST
I have encountered a discussion today with 125+ responses. It was 3 months old discussion and yet the user has not selected the Best Response. Most of the time if the number of responses are higher than 30, I find it difficult to give a BR to a certain person because I didn't read all of the responses and reading all the responses is that difficult too. You could see that I have nearly 75% of my discussion which are unresolved. What about you? Do you find it difficult or easy?
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@May2k8 (18391)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 09
That very difficult to give a BR, 100% of my discussion unresolved. Every time i make a new discussion, and someone else make many discussion ~_~. How can i set it to BR in that way.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
20 Jan 09
Are you saying that you will give BR to him just because s/he started 20 discussions or you are giving it because his response was good?
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
"I make a new discussion and someone else make many discussions" What do you mean by that? I am sorry but I couldn't understand that line of your response! Can you please elaborate?
@May2k8 (18391)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 09
Well, yesterday i make one discussion i get 3 response then i look for one member have been make 20 new discussion every day (i can't tell his name). I am thinking i will give BR to him, yes i will give his BR even it very difficult to me if i have free time.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
18 Jan 09
Hi sanuanu I am always happy when I get over 30 repsonses for my discussion.But this happiness is short lived as I go through all the discussions and try to give suitable comments.It is a tedious and time consuming job and giving BR is even more difficult.Just like you I too do not like giving Br without going through each of the discussions....Sometimes if I really like a comment I immediately mark it Br.At other times I chose 2 or 3 good ones and blindly give the Br tag to one at random......sigh....Is there any other way out??
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
Inky pinky chonky.. right. Well, its tough on them but one has to be chosen as a BR. Its not that tough when we have only one response to a discussion
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
20 Jan 09
But this is assured that you will not do unjustice with other persons on that discussion because there is no on entered the discussion. It could be a lesson for them that "You didn't enter my discussion and you loose a chance of becoming a BR for that!"
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
19 Jan 09
ha..ha...even if you have only one response it will not make things easier.What if you do not like the response or feel that the response does not deserve a BR?
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• United States
18 Jan 09
There's usually one that stands out. There's sort of a feeling of ,"Oh, yeah..." as I read it. That's what helps me choose a BR.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
18 Jan 09
I often get confused about it. I always think that there is no one or too many to impress me.
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• United States
18 Jan 09
That's because your discussions are good ones and attract good responses!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
Thanks for the complements but your discussions are always good.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Hello sanuanu! I have many unresolved discussions too. For me, it's hard to select the best response because I do think that many of those who responded to my discussion deserves to be chosen as best response. I read all the answers and I commented back on their answers. The problem is they are all quiet good that sometimes I would choose to let it unresolved than giving one. But I know I have to give one but maybe later.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
21 Jan 09
Who is this in your Avtar? Is it you yourself?
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
That is the problem I face. They are all good but not one to penetrate the discussion! Thanks for the response.
• United States
19 Jan 09
you're welcome
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@funtasy (98)
• Malaysia
18 Jan 09
well,i have not have a discuss started yet,so i haven't face to this problem. i still don't have a nice idea to post.just making friend and give friend's a respond/reply for now. actually what use for BR? just showing people this is the best respond only? sorry i still new and not that active at mylot ,forgive me if i ask stupid question.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
We all learn by asking stupid questions. In fact, I also have no idea what impact BR gives on payment. I think its just for pleasure kind of thing. We get BR and we get happy with that. That's it.
• Malaysia
19 Jan 09
ohh, i think every one are like to be the best poster ^.^
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
20 Jan 09
For one moment I thought you talking about best Banner(poster) but I have understood you are talking about response(poster). Funny though.
• India
29 May 09
Yes i find it difficult sometime because most of my discussion got responsed not more that 20 times and not satisfied with answer. but if i got good and satisfactory answer , whichever its number i select it as a best. Many of my discussion got only two to three response so that discussio is difficulty for me. I want to resolved by selecting some response "BR" happy myLotting!!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
30 May 09
Hi ranviru, how are you and where were you these days? I can still remember when I gave a BR for response on 6th page of a discussion. It was, I think, 58th response for that discussion.
• India
4 Jun 09
Hi, sanu i didnt have time to mylot. and ur discussion were not of my interest so i was hidden for you.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Well personally I am not the Best one to talk when it comes to giving out the Best Responses to a discussion as I am quite far behind in choosing one in a lot of my discussions as well. But personally this is what we are supposed to be doing, and what I will do is continue to read and respond back to posts posted there until I see an answer I feel worthy of the Best Response. Sometimes it might take a while to choose one, while other times I get a response I feel that fits right away. It is up to you, but others want to get a chance for a BR back on a discussion so I try and give them as I can.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
Most of the people don't do it. I have got nearly 7-8 BR from other mylotians and I think I have given 20 BRs till date. Well, I have started more than 100 discussion.
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
29 May 09
In my opinion, any discussion that exceeds 30 days and at least 5 responses, must be chosen to assign BR! But some discussions have zero or very few responses. In that case, we must message our friends to respond that and then choose BR. Thanks for this nice posting and have a good day and many BRs!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
30 May 09
I am not that good in selecting BR. I have almost 14 pages of unresolved discussions. Two days earlier I had 18 pages, out of which I have cleared 4 pages in those two days. I am planning to clean my unresovled page in next 7-8 days! Thanks for responding.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
29 May 09
With 10 pages of responses it is a daunting task to select who gets the BR. I still have 8 pages of unresolved discussions which is pending and hopefully I get to have a day to read all my past discussions and select the deserving responder.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
30 May 09
You are almost equal to me on that number. I have total 14 pages of them till date. In fact it was 18 two days ago and now it is only 14 becaus I have given away 40 BR in those two days.!
@yxinxin (467)
• China
19 Jan 09
Well, my discussions usually have very few responses and I always wait to have more but time passes quickly and the responses don't increase. So, I have 80% unresolved though there are only very few responses.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
20 Jan 09
I remember I gave BR in my discussion with only 3 responses but the response was upto the mark and it touched my heart. I have a great fear of no one coming for the discussion because once as discussion is resolved, people don't want to enter to that. So, I give BR after 15-16 days.
• India
18 Jan 09
It is very difficult for a person to give a best response when you have 125+ responses. I think he might have got the answer out of the responses. so i think that he can give the best response to the people who has best responded . Giving the best response is not difficult to me is more or less responses to my discussions will not cross more than 10. Some times it will stop at 5 or 6 sometimes i will get only one response too. i think that giving the best response to the only one response is difficult because i cannot get my opinion correct with that single response so i think if i have less than 30 responses i think it would easy to give the best response. i have many discussions in the unresolved . I am thinking that i will check my discussions and give the best responses when i am free , by this way i gave more than 5 best responses to my discussions in a single day. But i have many discussions unresolved i will do them when i find the free time
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
19 Jan 09
Giving BR to a single person does not mean anything but if I want that discussion out of the unresolved category, I will do that