What do you do when you can't do anymore?

Oh my goodness. I don't like to hear stories like that, it just breaks my heart, I can't imagine what you're going through. It sounds like you're mother is using you and doesn't want to do anything for herself. I hope this isn't the case because no one should have to raise their a grown person if they are capable of helping taking care of themselves. I mean it's understandable if she was just living with you and helping you pay the bills, or just leaning on you for a little while until she gets herself on track with a job to support herself. I don't know the whole story but it really does sounds like she's taking advantage of you. I think you should think about your kids first and just make sure your kids have a place to live, food to eat and other needies. Did you sit down and talk to her about how she's treating you? Do she feel bad for the way she treats you? Talk to her first about how you feel and about her getting a job and supporting herself. Explain to her that you can't keep taking care of her when she won't even try to help herself. You have kids to think about and you are responsible for your kids well being. Life is hard enough as it is, you are only 22 years old with 2 extra bellies to feed. If she doesn't want to change and help herself, you shouldn't help her anymore. You wouldn't be a bad daughter at all, you have already proven that you love your mom by helping her, she has to understand that your kids come first and you can't help anyone that's gonna use and abuse you. When she takes from you with no intentions of helping herself, she's also taking from your kids. I hope everything works out for you. If you need to talk just PM me anytime. May God bless you and guide you down the right path.