Have you ever love someone and dislike them at the same time?

i feel that way just as you said. sometimes i want to get my husband out because he is so boring,keeping saying something that i hate to listen to,that makes me crazy.but i love him at the same time,for he can cook delicious food for me,taking care of me when i am ill.it is really a complicated feeling.

It happens with me too. Sometimes, this feeling it's so strong and I keep away from my boyfriend. So, the distance make me see that I still love him.

yeah, i have people like that in my life... family and friends. i love them but sometimes i can really dislike them. people hurt you, make you mad or make mistakes... but love is deep.. and there is a difference between love and like/dislike. so i think everyone can love someone and dislike them at the same time. when someone makes you mad...you dislike them while they are doing it and your pissed at them usually...

Oh Yes!! Me and my boyfriend have been together for like a year and a half now and I love him so much but theres times where even though I love him I just can't stand to be around him. Its just sometimes he does little things to annoy me.

Yes, this happens often. But you know an old saying, love him, love his dog. There are not perfect man in the world.

many times...................i love somebody and next time i start founding out mistakes on him........and start hating

I thought about your question for a bit, isabella, and I'm starting to think that this is part of "unconditional love". In the past year, I went through a very difficult situation with my now 18 year old daughter. It was horrible and has affected my health both physically and emotionally. It's not entirely over and done with but we've made a lot of progress and I am hoping it continues to improve. During that time, I loved my daughter with all my heart but I truly did NOT like her. She was making callous, poorly informed decisions. She wouldn't respect anything that anyone in the family was trying to tell her (for her own safety, I might add). I felt embarrassed by her treatment of family and friends because she has always been a very bright and respectful girl. But she was unduly influenced by being in a very emotionally abusive relationship with a boy she had been dating for a few years already. This relationship totally colored her thoughts, feelings and behavior. That was the moment in time that I realized that I will always and forever love my daughter but that she could really become someone that I couldn't like very much. Heartbreaking... but true.

We can never really choose whom to love. It just happens! And ironically, we sometimes fall in love with someone whom we never really liked. I, too, am in a relationship now with someone whom I never intend to love in the first place simply because he's everything that I don't like in a man. But I am madly in love with this guy now.

Yes, I understand what you mean. I really love my fiance. However, there are times, when he annoys me. And during those times, I don't always love him. You could even say that I dislike him. At least, until we sort things through. There are also times, when my family annoys me to the point where I dislike them. Until I calm down that is. I can relate.

Oh yes i now that feeling very well,there are times i just want to run and hide the guy i live with gets on my nerves so bad.

u know thats true ive done that before but i had to realize what i was doing and just let things go so i could keep that person and it doesnt work

IF you guys are always together you will feel tired of him,that's normal I guess.we should spend sometime with our friends and others and then we can keep our relationship fresh.I would rather be alone sometimes and feel dislike the other,so I guess you feel the same way