what do you want in life

Philippines
January 19, 2009 6:20am CST
This question come to me whenever i feel depressed, sometimes i dont know what makes me happy, sometimes even friends tried to cheer me up, at the back of my mind im still so lonely. What do i want in life, what will i do? why im so sad, why im so lonely? My god , is there problem with me What do you want in life, riches, loving people ? This is a general question but you can always share your opinion to it. I love it when people express emotions even in writing coz i know it helps.
5 responses
@syang0901 (120)
• China
19 Jan 09
Yes, I always think about the questions as you mentioned above. I always say to myself happiness and freedom are most vital to me. But I'm not always feel them perhaps because I'm not so optimistic. We're sometimes at a loss in our long life,which is formal. Don't think too much about that. Cheer up and gradually try to find what you care most, my friend.
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
many thanks, i am trying to choose happiness than sadness everyday. Being optimistic, wow i want to practice that :) , but yea, its good to cheer up . :)
• Qatar
19 Jan 09
I always answer this question as choose what your heart say. Life is not about being rich or about having cool friends. because they are all will left you in adversity and when you go to God. Its just like Everyman play. I don't say that i don't have money or friends what i mean is choose what your religion say about life. My religion (Islam) says about life that all human being are created by God for a purpose is to worship him and achieve in earth.
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
Thank you and i appreciate your responce. Its meaningfull and i hope this can reach other mylotters too
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
what i want to do in life...so many, so many...but the thing is everything that we supposed we want to have, sometimes it don't go the way we want it to happen so first I want the world to be fair for me right now...for several years i had the thought that the world is being unfair to me specially when my girlfriend was taken away from me for good. destiny took us apart. life is UNFAIR indeed. no matter how much effort we put into some things, we may feel disappointed by the outcome of it. knowing what we want in life is not bad at all, at least we know were and what should be done and the actions that we need to do to accomplish all of that no matter what, at any cost. i myself do get lonely, emotional sometimes with all the things that don't go my way. i developed an alter-ego through that. another side of my personality that is always alone, lonely, soft spoken, intimidated, insecure and above all with no life at all. having friends to be with somehow took my consciousness to do the things that i am doing before.
• India
19 Jan 09
well the first thing that i wanted to do in my life is that too full fill my dreams as much as fast i can because i want to be a air force pilot for my country india and it is the best thing that i ever wanted in my life
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Well.. You are really not alone in that kind of situation. I was in that stage too but I tend to move on for my own sake. Its not easy, isn't it? We get lonely for no reason. We got friends and our family but we still feel empty. Is that what you feel too? That's what I feel. Anyway, about the question. I want my life is just to be happy with my family and other beloved ones. But for that to happen, I need to make myself happy for a while and that's what I am doing now. Living life to its fullest..