Do you fulfil all your beloved's wishes?
By mercuryman3a
@mercuryman3a (2477)
India
January 19, 2009 12:03pm CST
Is your beloved very demanding? Do you fulfil all her wishes? What if you can't afford some thing which she wants and yo do not want to say no. How do you manage? I am often in a dilema as to what to do wheni do not have that kind of money. She isn't too demanding mostly. I never say no though. i alwasy say "yes we must get it. it certainly will suit you. I will surprise you one of these days."
What do you do?
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4 responses
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
22 Jan 09
i try to work it out to where i can get my hubby what ever he wants even if it means me not getting what i want etc..
@huntski (29)
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30 Jan 09
WOW! You sound like a really selfless person MagikChild, hope your hubby appreciates what he's got and recipicates the favours. Unfortunately, selfless personalities are often paired with selfish ones in my experience. Could be the opposites attract thing or just that selfish people will only settle with the selfless so tey get everything they want! What do you reckon...
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
30 Jan 09
whats unique is he isnt selfish either and is always wanting me to have everything i want so some times we get stuck wanting to do stuff for the other one and the person not wanting it for themselves and stopping it.. its crazy but its better than a lot of couples that are both selfish and miserable.. but it sucks since we both feel like we can never do enough for each other sometimes.. even though we never expect to get anything for ourselves etc
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
20 Jan 09
hi mercuryman
i guess i am not supposed to reply to this but my hands are itchy ..
me and my husband are in partnership ... if i know he can, like the times he has bonus or something i will demand but when i know our bank balance is low then i will not even think or ask anything ...
lucky my husband
cheers
@jitendrakumarsingh (46)
• India
19 Jan 09
I myself always try to do that i can but in some cases when i was not having enough to fulfill her demand than i used to say her that"Presently I am not having that much baby but I will get you that in the near future".That's very simple and a straight way as Girls usually lovers are there not for your money or with demands.
I think they are Life partners.
@huntski (29)
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19 Jan 09
Be straight with her mate, if you can't afford what she wants then tell her. If she reacts badly then guess what? It 'aint you she's really after. But i'm guessing she'll probably respect you a little more for it, women don't really want their men to be pushovers. Let me know how it goes, all the best,
Huntski.
