what do you prefer?

Hello, For starters I am a girl. for me I prefer both a guy and girl best friends for many different reasons. Let's get started, for a guy best friend well I need one of them because let's say it is my hubby's birthday and I ran out of ideas of what to get him for his birthday. I will be able to run to him to get ideas because he is a guy. Plus say when there is a problem with household repairs I can ask him if he could come over to help my hubby when ever my hubby does not want to ask for help. Now for a girl best friend well it is so that I can have a break and go to the mall and what not stuff that us girls like to do. Plus another great thing is that when you have a best girl friend you can go to her to talk about anything that goes wrong compared to if you go to the guy best friend he will tell you what you are doing wrong and won't say nothing about how your hubby is also doing wrong compared to the girl best friend she will point out what both of you's are doing wrong. Which to me is the advice I would want because at least this way you will know what it is that you could do to fix the relationship and you will also have advice to take home to your hubby so that he will know what he can do to help fix the relationship. To me it is a win win situation here. I will have to say that I do have best friends of both sexes so that I can get tons of information for many different reasons. Happy Mylotting

it depend on how closely we are attached to them...... and how freely we express our feelings....in general gender doesn't matter when it comes to friendship......

i prefer a girl bestfriend since i'm a bi-guy. With my bestfriend right now,I can tell her anything and mostly we have lots of things in common although it's also nice to have a guy bestfriend.