When you were a child, was the person of your dreams the same you married?

Actually I married a lady that lived in another state. I didn't meet her until I was about 22, so I guess I would have to answer no to your question.

I don't think any woman can honestly say that she married her prince charming and he stayed her prince charming. When I married my husband he was everything I had ever dreamed of and more, but eventually that prince does fall off the horse. He's military and after his first tour in Iraq, he had a lot of emotional problems and problems with dealing with family. He definitely fell off that horse, or tank LOL, and we had to sort through a lot of problems. Fortunate for me, the Lord knew what He was doing and my husband got back up on that horse and has stayed on it for quite some time now. This is is third deployment and each one gets harder, but we grow stronger in the Lord and in each other and love each other more through each one. He is my prince charming, whether on or off. They always fall off, but you have to give them a chance to get back up. Same for us women, we aren't always the princess that he wants to save, but we have to try the best we can to make him happy. God bless

I love that movie, Practical Magic. :) The person I am with now is not someone I would have thought I'd end up with. However, I am with the person that is best for me. I really love this person. This person loves me. They're good with my kids. I am the happiest I've been in a long time.

When I was a child, i want tommy page as my husband because I thought he was cute and romantic. But now, mu husband is nothing like tommy page. Handsome, maybe. but not romantic at all..So no, the person I am married to is not the same like what I use to dream of when I was a child!

When I was still young I am so idealistic. Even to the man I am supposed to get married. But as we grow older everything changes. Even in our wants and dreams in life. I amy say, my husband is not the same person I always wanted to get married. But he is the perfect man for me.

Hi pleiades, In my opinion its not possible to get our dreams.dreams are come and go,nobody can not deserved their dreams in real life,its only fulfill in cinemas and stories.

Well I married somebody that is different from what I envisioned a long time ago. I guess by age it differs as my taste would normally change at each age level I am in. But I guess I am happy where I ended and I think all of those ideal woman I have in mid is somehow refined to something I deserved to have.

the prince charming I dreamed of when I was a young girl never turned out right. It not only turned out wrong but also the very opposite of my dream man. Every woman has to undergo a long winding road, experience many heartaches before meeting their prince charming and not to mention having kissed many toads along the way.

Hello Pleiades! I do married the man whom I always dreamed of since I was young. All my life, I want to marry a man who is tall, white skinned and handsome. It all came true. My husband is tall (6ft), he has white skin (he is american and I am filipino), and very handsome with brown eyes and long nose, with a cute lips..hehe..I am blessed because he turn out to be a very good husband to me and very responsible.

Well im current in a relationship and honestly speaking i had never dreamt or imagined how my better half would look like cos i believe this will cause me to become "blinded" by my own expectations. I would rather leave everything to fate and when I meet the one I love, She will be who I dream of. Its kinda like accepting your better half for who they are instead of trying to change them or imagine them as who you want them to be. My 1 cent worth of thought :)