parents

@gemini13 (333)
India
January 20, 2009 4:58am CST
i have lost both of my parents and its really aching that i have can't share the most happiest news of my life with them... am a mom now...
4 responses
• India
20 Jan 09
Without showing sympathy, I must tel you a few things. 1.Trust Time: Pain recedes, you know it, you just don't believe it. Whenever you have been depressed, you must have observed, while you were in that phase of depression, you thought it would never end, but it did end. And this is a fact, like everything, this thing shall end too. 2.Move On: You know what has happened had to happened, and now it has happened and you can only do 2 things about it, see it from a positive aspect, or from a negative one. You can't change what happened, so shouldn't you rather try and see things from a different angle?I accept not everything can be wrapped into happy trappings, but at least don't make it sad.In this world, everything fills the niches, if one thing is not there, something else will surely take its place.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
20 Jan 09
Its always hard to lose your parents, but now that you are a mother, take care of the little one. Im sure they must be blessing the little one from up there. They know and are happy for you. Do not grieve for any more, enjoy the bliss of being a mother and your new born baby. Good luck and congratulations.
@clarity (65)
• United States
20 Jan 09
So sorry that you have lost your parents but I'm very happy that you are a new mom. Enjoy, your new baby and I agree keep your focus on the new life. Grieve the lost but keep your focus in the present.
@kometer (151)
• China
20 Jan 09
I'm sorry about your parents.You can share your happiness with your child.Stop yearning what you have lost,take care of those that you own.