Your lover loves your frnd.................

I think I have somewhat experienced that kind of stuff, although it wasn't intense like love. My now ex boyfriend admitted that he had a crush on one of my college friends. And I must admit that it affected me so much that I tried not to bring him with me when I know that his crush would be there too.

First of all I keep myself away from this love stuff as much as I can. There are many guys admire me and may be loves me but they like me for sure. But I am not sure ho w many of them really want me in their life for life long because I believe in long term affair/ relationship rather than changing BF every now and then. I did not find any situation as you asked for yet but if I have my lover with me and I am someone's lover then definitely there is no such possibility to love someone else in my case and his also. Love and being a lover is most promising thing I can ever imagine and believe in. :)

Fortunately I've never been in that situation and I can say that my boyfriend is honest and loyal. I know that my heart is safe with him. I also try my best to placate his and my girlfriends friendships - they are friendly with each other and are in "honest" friendly relationships and I like how they respect the boundaries. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

I know whome you are talking about. Well its like the film wedding crushers. This never had happened to me. and also i dont want to be in this like situation. IT is very confusing how to dealt with this situation. I mean whom you love love you best friend. Even it had been someone else it will not be so disastorous. ANyone except your friend. I always scared that whome i liked would like my friend who is smarter than me. I dont know what to do in this type of situation. And never want anyone to be in this situation.