Cheater

@CRIVAS (1815)
Canada
January 20, 2009 11:31am CST
Have you ever cheated on your partner? I have never been unfaithful, it has always been something that I frown upon. I believe that if you are in a relationship and you are having thoughts about being unfiathful, then it is time to break up and more on. I believe that you can not love someone if you are not faithful to them. I want to know: How many of you out there have ever cheated on someone? Why did you feel the need to be unfaithful? Have you ever been cheated on? What did you do?
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8 responses
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
20 Jan 09
There was a research that just showed up for females. I read up on it. Females who have high levels of estrogen are more likely to cheat. It something about the estrogen and your body being attractive makes you want to show it off.
• Israel
20 Jan 09
Arent you the person who was so pretty that was force to take out your pictures, so the men in the forums wont you flirt forever?
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
4 Feb 09
No I have never and like you I have always looked down on it.For me even looking at other women gives me a conscience attack.I think when you are in a relationship you should try very hard to be faithfull by avoiding situations that can result in infidelity.As to whether I ahve been cheated on ,I dont know and I hope I havent.That would just destroy my day.
• United States
3 Feb 09
I've never cheated and, if the urge struck me, I would end the relationship before it ever happened or I would ignore the urge.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
3 Feb 09
I have never cheated on my partner. I could never do something like that to him. I love him way to much to be able to cheat on him and in my opinion disrespect him and our relationship in that way. Love is a special thing, and cheating seems to take away that love.
@tepitenio (119)
• Israel
20 Jan 09
Never, never, and never!!! Cheating is destroying the only thing that worth something in the world: Love relationships. And this is the same for lovers, mothers, friends, and even God. I remember once (when I was a kid) my team won a footbal tournament, and there was a mother (not mine) that went to see all of our games. I dedicated the prize to her, and I remember till today my mother's face. I feel sorry for her, and I regreat it. I feel I cheater. I think I made an interesting point here: Cheating is not only for lovers.
• Canada
20 Jan 09
I will be honest here and tell you that yes i have cheated on a boyfriend once,keep in mind i was 18 years old and i felt horrible.Also i've had numorous boyfriends who have cheated on me and i've lost trust in man for a long time.That is why for a long time i would always have open relationship,i mean if you gonna go sleep with some other girl i can go do the same and nobody has to feel guilty.That doesn't mean i was happy though!Now i am with a great guy,we have been together for 7 years and have two kids,i am not insecure at all with him we are very open to each other.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I cheated on my highschool boyfriend. He cheated on me first though. I never would have cheated if he hadn't broke my heart. We stayed together after he did it but I don't think things were ever the same. We should have ended it but we had been together for a good part of high school and I think we were afraid to be alone. The last guy I cheated on him with I ended up marrying. I broke up with my boyfriend and stayed with this guy and we've been together ever since. I would never cheat on my husband. To me marriage is much more sacred then just a highschool boyfriend. I frown upon cheating to. But I think that thoughts of being unfaithful doesn't always mean you should break up. Sometimes something in the relationship just needs fixed.
• United States
20 Jan 09
I have never once cheated on my partner. I do regret the fact that there were a few times where I was the one the other person was cheating with. I don't think that cheating is ever acceptable. If you are thinking about cheating, your relationship is over.