how to show effection??

January 20, 2009 2:09pm CST
there is a girl i like, and ... its hard to explain. i havn't felt like this for a long time, i think she likes me also though i don't want to ask her out or anything though fear of rejection. can anyone give me any advice as to what i should do to find out if she does really like me? thanks.
1 response
• Canada
20 Jan 09
Rejection is one of the major reasons why people don't cease the moment. The only thing I can tell you is the way you will only find out and the best way to do it is to ask her directly. Rejection can be a pain but at least you went for it and got your answer. Another thing that plagues people along side of rejection is the feeling of regret. I ask you this. What would you rather feel accomplished because you went for it and were able to either 1. pursue a relationship further with her or 2. move on knowing there can be nothing more with her because she doesn't reciprocate the feelings. OR would you rather sit there in your room wondering what could have been had you taken the moment given to you.. and you let it pass you by? With one situation you find out the truth, with the second you never find out. You have to realize rejection will always be there. We're not meant for everyone and their not meant for us. Don't give up on the possibility of forever because of essentially the fear of the unknown. That's the fun thing about it. Is not knowing and taking the chance. I did just that took a chance on what 'could be' and what 'could be' turned into my forever. you never know till you try.
21 Jan 09
thanks for that response amanda, that really meant something. i will deeply consider everything you said