i was wrong....huhuhuhu

@becnh83 (806)
Philippines
January 20, 2009 6:21pm CST
i was wrong with my decision...i let my officemate cut my long shiny black hair..i was disappointed of what i have done......this will take how many months before i get that long hair again...[em]sad[/em.... is this happen to you too?
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@Humbug25 (12540)
22 Jan 09
Hi ya becnh83 We all make bad decisions from time to time and I am sure I have done something simular but have lived to tell the tale!! Yes it will take time to grow back but at least it will eventually grow back again! Take it easy!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
yeah i know but when? it takes a very long time thats the most discouraging....
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• United States
31 Mar 09
I'm a guy, and I fully understand your regret. I'm very sorry. Long hair is very beautiful, and I am pained when a woman undergoes a major chop. One woman at work had the most amazing long hair. I don't know what she was thinking. She is 49, and was the hottest babe in the place. The great news: My wife once had*spiked* hair during her pixie phase, but that was a wake-up call, and her hair has not been above waist for the last half decade. And it will not be. She hates short hair more than I do now. Smile and hold your head high. If you wish, your hair will NEVER again be short, and from your photo, that will be a LONG time!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
Sometimes we make wrong choices in life that we regret. Good for you that it will grow back again and you'll get what you want. So don't despair it will be back pretty soon just go on with your life and be happy with what you have and soon you will realized that its back to where you wanted it again.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
yeah but it will take a long time...
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
Do not worry about it so much you still have your hair and it still grows so i think there's nothing to worry about in the meantime it is short prepare your hair to be long and strong again. do not concentrate on the bad feeling just move on because you cannot get your long hair just being depressed buy it.
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
22 Jan 09
Dont worry, I know you must be feeling miserable, if the hairstyle does not suit you. It will take time, but like they say, its our farm, we can grow it back again. Till then, go to some good stylist and get it redone. Maybe, it will suit you better. cheer up pal, its not the end of the world.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
yes i get this redone already its just the same i thought it will be better after i gone to the parlor...its just the same..sad isnt it?
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@walkthetalk (1307)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I think maybe you should not worry so mush about the long hair gone, and be thankful with what you still have. Find a cute way to fix it, and go with it. Soon people will be telling you how they love your new hair style. And you will be loving the attention.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
wow i hope to hear that from my fellow friends and officemate.....but since i cut it nobodys says that im pretty with my new hair...sad...?????? thanks and happy posting....
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@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
Well, don't be sad... Just make your haircut nicer like placing a head band or clip for you to look younger and beautiful. Don't worry you wouldn't noticed that your hair is growing in no time and you will get shocked that your hair is back to its length. Cheer up! I have the same thing too. This time it was my bangs that the person cuts it never did what I wanted instead, he cuts my hair the way he wanted.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
yeah im not that bad now im a little confident with my hair now...i dont mind them now... happy posting
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@messageme (2821)
• United States
28 Jan 09
Yes I have done this before! Many times actually. I get so sick of my hair being the same way so I chop it off and then I really hate it and wish I would have left it long! I am at that point again and want to cut it, but maybe I won't reading your discussion just reminded me of how much I usually hate it after I have cut it. Thanks for the reminder!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
really? hahahaha...
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Jan 09
hi becnh...ohh you mean you let your officemate cut your long hair? not in the saloon? well i guess it was a bad decisionbut cheer up..anyways what been done happens so just move on ..it will grow up again..no big deal..jsut curious what made you decide such as that?
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
i dont know what comes up with my mind that i let my officemate cut it and the worst of it is that he cut it very short i told him to trim it a little, actually this guy is a gay so maybe he wanted to do something new with me thats why he cut it very short, then i was not contented with how he does it so i go to the parlor and cut it again...thats what happens...
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
21 Jan 09
well sorry that your hair is shorter then you want it, but you know your looking on the bright side, it will grow back, and you may get used to it if you just had it cut.. maybe the style will grow on you. tee hee.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
....yeah but i really had a bad time since i cut my hair...
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@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
It has never happened to me, when someone cut my hair and the result was a regret? But I'm sorry to hear that it happened to you. Anyway, just draw some positive things out of what happened to your hair, I'm sure you'll still be beautiful with your short hair.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
thank you for that wonderful word "BEAUTIFUL" but soory i am not...i look a chubby one...do u think i will regret if i look beautiful?.....so sad...so dont ever cut your hair, think it many times... happy mylotting...
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21 Jan 09
Hi becnh83, Ohhh! how sad, never mind it will grow back soon, yes when I was a lot younger I had a long hair down bottom and one day I got fedup with had it all cut off, I did regret it but years later I had my hair just down to my shoulds and I ask my friend to cut it very short, now I wouldn't want it long again, I love it short. Tamara
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
really? but i look better with a long hair than in short that why im so upset of what i did...... thanks tamara happy posting
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
21 Jan 09
The way I feel about hair is it will grow out no matter how badly it is cut. It's not worth a friendship problem. If necessary you can always go to the professional to have the cut adjusted so it grows out nicely.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
yeah thats a very good idea but it needs a big amount of money if i let it take good care of an expert hair care..... thanks anyway for that good idea...
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• Philippines
21 Jan 09
Oh yes, that happened to me also!! I cut my hair in the salon that has no concern how would I look like and never followed my instructions how much inches just to be trimmed. Since then I was so very much careful not to cut my long black hair, hehehehe.... Until now actually, I have not cut nor trimmed it yet, am still looking for a salon that can give an idea how and what could be the best style for me... :)
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
wow...thats nice..dont u ever cut your hair as short as mind....i dont want you to feel what i feel right now so sad and remorseful...
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